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Better put 'em in the dirt with penny loaves. No tendo. I'm a window. Episode 24.

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Ballin'. Episode 24.

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Is it technically 23? Because we didn't No, it's 24.

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Because we're gonna even if we don't count Emilies. Oh. It's 24. Um Love you, buddy. Bye. Bye. Bye. Okay. Well, yes, welcome to episode 24, and look what I'm gonna do. Up in the show. Welcome to the event. Um yeah, it's late right now, and you have been so freaking annoying tonight.

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What are you talking about?

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You and me again.

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I have been beyond fun. We're gonna add you just don't appreciate art.

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Art?

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Art. You heard what I said.

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We're gonna add the clip of you singing at the beginning here, and that was not art.

SPEAKER_03 1:06

What clip?

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You're singing.

SPEAKER_03 1:09

Yeah, what what was I singing?

SPEAKER_01 1:11

I don't know. You can jump in with some if you'd like.

SPEAKER_03 1:14

No, like was I rapping or was I singing?

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I don't know. What was it?

SPEAKER_03 1:20

Well, no, like the clip. What's the clip of?

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You just barely.

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So me rapping.

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That was rapping?

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Well, yeah.

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Okay. Yeah. I'm gonna add that.

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No, I was talking about when I was singing Cheetahs.

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Yeah. I went through the first album.

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And then I went through the second album when they're in Barcelona.

SPEAKER_01 1:40

Oh my gosh. So I went on a walk with the boys. Come back. And it's like I walked in to the Scala family house back in 2006. Yeah. So maybe it would have been 10, you would have been eight. Cheetah Girls blasting.

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Yeah.

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You guys are singing so loud and doing a little art and craft.

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It's a masterpiece, first of all.

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No.

SPEAKER_03 2:12

And what? Oh, and Deanny was coloring a pair um his cowboy boots, right? No. No.

SPEAKER_01 2:22

Oh, he didn't. Oh, he colored a picture with a puppy book. Yes. Yes. And it was so good. Yeah. It was so good. Bye, Dean. Bye bye. Yes, you're singing. You know, people have been really, really nice trying to add some suggestions for how to avoid migraines.

unknown 2:51

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 2:51

I think number one would be you stop singing.

SPEAKER_03 2:54

No, I think that Cheetah Girls could help cure your migraine.

SPEAKER_01 3:00

After today. No, okay. Then let's also go back like a couple more hours. Emily comes over.

SPEAKER_03 3:08

Ah, yes. And she all of a sudden turns into Michael Jackson.

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Oh, Michael.

SPEAKER_03 3:13

Is that barbecue sauce on your hand?

SPEAKER_01 3:15

Yes, it is. Because you know why? Because Emily comes over. Let's let's just talk about this whole thing.

SPEAKER_03 3:21

Okay, okay, okay.

SPEAKER_01 3:22

She calls Megan before. Megan, cook for me.

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Yeah.

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Because yes, Megan is an amazing cook.

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She's the best cook.

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Then she, but Emily wants her to cook uh for her. Wants Megan to cook for her.

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Yeah.

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So I was like, okay, but you have to help clean up.

SPEAKER_03 3:42

Oh no. So then Emily never cleans up after dinner. She somehow No, no, no.

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What she does, this is what she does. She acts like she's helping cook.

SPEAKER_03 3:52

Oh yeah. She caught like four strawberries.

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First off, she's like, okay, I'll cook the chicken. Goes out there to turn on the grill. Does, and then I go look at it five minutes later. She didn't even turn on the grill. She just like turned the temperature to the right. It's like three nine or four.

SPEAKER_03 4:07

But she didn't hit like ignite.

SPEAKER_01 4:09

Yeah, she didn't hit ignite. Grill wasn't even wrong. Then she's like, How do we even cook this chicken? And so she's like, should I just like take it out of the package and put it on the grill? I was like, oh my gosh.

SPEAKER_03 4:18

She wasn't gonna marinate. Even I know you have to like marinate it.

SPEAKER_01 4:21

I think she was playing dumb to make it so like I would do it. You know what I mean? Like she was very calculated with that. So then I was like, okay, cut the strawberries. Megan asked her to rinse the strawberries. Couldn't even do that.

SPEAKER_03 4:34

Well, because me and Megan like to rinse our strawberries in vinegar. Yeah. We'll like mix vinegar and water and let them sit for a few minutes and then rinse them off and then cut them.

SPEAKER_01 4:42

No, it was like she needed a recipe.

SPEAKER_03 4:44

And Emily's like, we what? How do you do that? Wait, what? No, they're gonna taste like vinegar if you do that. It's like, no, they don't. That's why you rinse them off with water after.

SPEAKER_01 4:53

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 4:53

So then it just gets all like the gross like dirt and bugs off.

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She pretended to cook, would just go back and forth between watching Michael Jackson. Because she also turned that on.

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We were watching the Michael movie, which it's so good. And then she would scream with the leg.

SPEAKER_01 5:12

Oh my gosh. So bat. Like it's insane.

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But like he moves his leg like left and then right, and she just like brings her leg like straight up. She's like please stop.

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Like when you do that sound, it truly like sends rage through my body.

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Oh, it's so funny.

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Because she did it at least a hundred times.

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Oh yeah.

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And it was never good. Or she does the it just I yeah.

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So funny.

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So yeah, she pretended to cook, screamed the entire time Michael Jackson. And she does it so loud. She does it so loud.

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So loud. Like she can really project.

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And then eats and didn't clean up one thing.

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And then she's like, okay, I gotta go, guys. Gotta get the girls in bed.

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It's 7:30.

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Literally, Capri's like, I'm gonna go hang out with my friends. And we were like, okay.

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So anyway, she yeah, she finessed us all. Well, Megan and I. Yeah. So that was fun. Anyway, so that's why I have barbecue sauce. Do you want do you want some?

SPEAKER_02 6:25

No.

SPEAKER_01 6:25

Okay. I'll just save it for later. Um anyway, so then that on top of your seeing the cheetah girls, I took a painkiller, just some painkillers before this to help.

SPEAKER_03 6:39

Because like Advil or like big stuff?

SPEAKER_01 6:43

No, not big stuff. I don't even have any big stuff. Yeah, yeah. So anyway, tonight's been a night. You're so so entertaining.

SPEAKER_03 6:55

Well, in my defense, I listened to most of Cheetah Girls when you were gone. The only song I sang for you was Amiga's Cheetahs from the second album, and that's the last song on the album.

SPEAKER_01 7:08

You sang for at least 20 minutes.

SPEAKER_03 7:10

No, I sang for like two.

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I literally almost choked you out.

SPEAKER_03 7:21

Well it was amazing though. Have you ever like genuinely have you ever seen Cheetah Girls?

SPEAKER_01 7:31

I remember seeing the commercials on Disney Channel.

SPEAKER_03 7:36

Because how old are you? 31. Let's see. When did Cheetah Girls come out?

SPEAKER_01 7:40

Cheetah Girls was out when I was young. I just never watched it. Like I was never interested in watching Cheetah Girls. Hannah Montana, on the other hand, absolutely watched her.

SPEAKER_03 7:50

What year did Cheetah Girls come out? 2003. So I was I was five.

SPEAKER_01 7:58

Did you just count eight, nine, zero?

SPEAKER_03 8:00

Like nine, like ninety-nine. 2000. So zero. Okay. One, two, three. Interesting.

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Um, you were five when it came out.

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And that is me watching Cheetah Girls, I became obsessed. Hence Chee Chi because I was so obsessed with Cheetah Girls. Then my aunt made me Chee Chi because I wanted a Cheetah blanket.

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You still sleep with to this day. Which, like a five-year-old.

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That's my girl.

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My girl. So give me your top three shows from New York Kid.

SPEAKER_03 8:41

Well, shows are movies.

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Okay.

SPEAKER_03 8:44

Like Disney Channel originals?

SPEAKER_01 8:46

Like Disney Channel. Disney Channel can be Disney Channel or Nickelodeon.

SPEAKER_03 8:50

Okay. Cheetah Girls. Wait, shows or movies?

SPEAKER_01 8:54

Just your top three productions of Disney Channel or Nickelodeon. Because I think mine are gonna be shows, and I think yours might be more movies.

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Okay. Cheetah Girls.

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Okay.

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Zoe 101.

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Zoe 101 was good. She was hot.

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And high school musical.

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Yeah, I refuse to ever watch high school musical.

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Oh, sorry.

SPEAKER_01 9:17

That was just missing out. Blasphemy to the game of basketball.

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High school music. Straight blasphemy. Who says we have to let it go? That's dance to the music.

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Thank you.

SPEAKER_03 9:27

That's not the right words, but that's like the closing song.

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Everyone hears what I'm I deal with.

SPEAKER_03 9:32

The closing song in High School Musical 3 when they graduate.

SPEAKER_01 9:35

That show. Yeah. Anyway, okay.

SPEAKER_03 9:38

I feel like you would like it because you're like a basketball player.

SPEAKER_01 9:40

No, I just said that's blasphemy to the game of basketball. That was so dumb.

SPEAKER_03 9:44

I thought it was good.

SPEAKER_01 9:45

Singing a musical while playing basketball? You think I'm gonna think that's he was he was so torn.

SPEAKER_03 9:50

It's like he loves basketball, but he also has a really good voice.

SPEAKER_01 9:52

It's like tough, tough life. And he has I and like the problem was I'd watch it and I was like, wow, he sucks really bad.

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Yeah, he's not a basketball player.

SPEAKER_01 10:02

Exactly. So it's like you can't, it's tough to watch.

SPEAKER_03 10:05

No, he had the most epic, hottest crash out.

SPEAKER_01 10:10

Hottest crash out? What does that mean?

SPEAKER_03 10:12

Hottest crash out because he doesn't know what to do.

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What does that mean? What's a hot crash out?

SPEAKER_03 10:18

Like he's having a crash out, like he is like have like kind of like looking at having him at TV, but he looks so hot while he's doing it. Was and he's like singing and dancing with the city.

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Was he your biggest crush?

SPEAKER_03 10:28

Push-up. Troy Bolton when I was growing up. Yeah, or Jesse from Hannah Montana, the dark hair. Not Jake.

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I didn't, I wasn't Team Jake, I was Team Hannah Montana was my crush growing up.

SPEAKER_03 10:41

Hannah Montana is like right there with high school musical. It's hard for me to pick. Because the Hannah Montana movie, top tier. I still will watch that when I'm bored sometimes.

SPEAKER_01 10:51

I don't think I can't remember the movie, but I loved Miley Cyrus.

SPEAKER_03 10:56

Well, why how did you not watch Hannah Montana the movie? Because then it like they go back to Tennessee, like where she came from where she came from when she goes, Hello, New York, off her private jet. And she's like in the middle of Tennessee, and there's like a cow and his like your ability to quote movie lines is pretty good.

SPEAKER_01 11:13

I'm not, I will give that to you. Yeah. Because I do not remember anything like that. But I loved Ham Montana, never watched the movie. Okay, my top three though.

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Yeah, I go.

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Ned's declassified.

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I did love Neds.

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So good. Mm-hmm. Drake and Josh.

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Drake and Josh was good.

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And.

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Did you ever watch Victorious?

SPEAKER_01 11:36

No, I never got into that one.

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That one's good.

SPEAKER_01 11:39

Isn't that where what's her name came from?

SPEAKER_03 11:40

Uh um Victoria Justice.

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And Ariana Grande.

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Yeah, that's where Ari, yeah. Victoria Justice was on Zoe 101.

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That's right. And then she switched over.

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Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 11:52

Yeah. And then I don't want to say Hannah Montana because we already watched, I mean, already talked about that, but Sweet Life of Zack and Cody was weird.

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I love it. Did you ever play the Sweet Life of Zack and Cody game on the computer?

SPEAKER_01 12:05

No, I wasn't a nerd like you.

SPEAKER_03 12:07

You didn't ever go play like the Disney Channel games on the computer?

SPEAKER_01 12:10

No.

SPEAKER_03 12:10

Like Disney Channel.com and you can play the games?

SPEAKER_01 12:13

I never played video games and like never allowed.

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Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 12:17

Oh my gosh. I freaking balled out playing the game where they're in the it's like the hotel hallway, and you can like go up and down the elevators and you have to not get caught by an adult. I freaking crushed at that game.

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Honestly makes sense.

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And you have to like hit the arrows.

SPEAKER_01 12:34

Probably where your like sneakiness came from.

SPEAKER_03 12:38

Sneakiness? I'm not sneaky. I can't keep a secret from you guys. Save my life.

SPEAKER_01 12:43

You're not sneaky.

SPEAKER_03 12:45

No. How am I sneaky?

SPEAKER_01 12:47

Just memor memorizing credit card numbers like it's nothing.

SPEAKER_03 12:50

Uh well, that's not sneaky. That's just a talent. It's not sneaky because everybody knows that I do it.

SPEAKER_01 12:55

That's true. That's true. I mean, I'll give that to you. So anyway, that's funny. Good times.

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The best times. Disney Channel, like in like the early 2000s.

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Zoe 101. I'm just like Unbeatable. I used to like dream about that school. I was like, early Nickelodeon was good.

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Yeah, I that was my dream school with the little sidekicks that they flip up.

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I had one. Okay, cute. I had a sidekick. That was cool. But um jealous. And then what was the it was like Chase and Logan.

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Oh, yeah.

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Logan was like the dumb one, and Chase was the one.

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Rejected, rejected. Yeah, you just got rejected. R E J C No, how do you smell rejected? Yeah, you just got rejected when they lose the bet and they have to be his cheerleaders, and he tries to go hit on a girl, Logan.

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Uh, I don't remember all of it, but classic episode. That's hilarious.

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The Vespas that they would ride around.

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Didn't they try to remake Zoe 101 or like something?

SPEAKER_03 13:56

Yeah, I feel like I think they I can't remember. I can't remember. Maybe they did. I don't know. I swallowed it.

SPEAKER_01 14:07

Um all right. Anyway, that was a long tangent on our favorite TV shows growing up. I wonder if like I feel like we're missing some good ones though. So people remember some of them.

SPEAKER_03 14:18

I mean, I loved like Kim Possible.

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Kim Possible is good.

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Such a good one. Come beat me if you even Stevens, speaking of Kim Possible.

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Wait, that's top. That's even Stevens.

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Wizards of Wizard Wizards of Waverly Place. So good.

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Unreal. So good. That one's a top, top one. Um I never gotten a Wizards like Waverly Place. The magic was a little too weird for me.

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That was good. It was good. Um and the movie was good too.

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Yeah, I don't remember.

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But the reboot, not good.

SPEAKER_01 14:48

I didn't even know they rebooted it.

SPEAKER_03 14:50

Yeah, they tried to do a reboot like a couple years ago and it sucked.

SPEAKER_01 14:54

Um anyway, what are the updates? What's going on? What happened this week?

SPEAKER_03 15:00

Um, just been riding lots and lots of horses.

SPEAKER_01 15:04

I went down Wait, what do you mean lots and lots of horses? I thought you were just riding like one that you like want to buy.

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I've been I've been going and looking at all different horses this week.

SPEAKER_01 15:14

Oh, right.

SPEAKER_03 15:14

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 15:15

Not just the old one, not just the grand grandmother.

SPEAKER_03 15:18

Okay, she's not a grandmother. She's 14. It's not even that old.

SPEAKER_01 15:23

That's like saying you're not old. I'm just kidding. Sorry. That was me.

SPEAKER_03 15:28

Some people would say that I'm still a baby. Like outside of Utah.

SPEAKER_01 15:33

I know. I like to give you hard time. I agree.

SPEAKER_03 15:35

Yeah. Anyway. So drove two hours to see the 14-year-old. Then I looked at I looked at one again that I saw a couple weeks ago. I'm going to look at one tomorrow. Then I just also like had like my standard lessons, like today and on Tuesday.

SPEAKER_01 15:59

And did we break 10 miles an hour yet?

SPEAKER_03 16:02

Well, no, because like usually in my lessons, I'm not like running barrels because what are they teaching you then?

SPEAKER_01 16:11

Like, walk me through a lesson because I'm like, what's happening? Are they just like stringing you out to get more money out of you?

SPEAKER_03 16:17

No, no, no. They're teaching me how to handle horses. So, like the horse that I rode today, her name's Pip. And she they bought her as a lesson horse, and she was supposed to be kid safe.

SPEAKER_00 16:30

Okay.

SPEAKER_03 16:31

Not kid safe. Like today, when I was grooming her, I was brushing her tail. And normally, I mean, and I know people are gonna freak out at me for saying this because it's not that safe, but normally I just like stand directly behind them and just like brush out.

SPEAKER_01 16:46

I even know that's a no-no.

SPEAKER_03 16:48

Well, if you have like a broke horse that's not gonna set back, it's usually fine.

SPEAKER_01 16:53

But what is a broke horse?

SPEAKER_03 16:55

Trained, yeah, like they're they're just not gonna do anything bomb proof, essentially.

unknown 17:00

What?

SPEAKER_01 17:00

Why do you like crazy phrases here?

SPEAKER_03 17:03

No, it's just like anything, like nothing phases them. Okay, they're just like uh, you know. So that's how they bought her, but then they quickly realize, like, oh, she's not kid safe. She's like not a beginner horse, like only somebody who like knows how to handle a tough horse can get on her. So I'm brushing her tail and I'm like standing to the side for how because I wasn't tied up in like the normal spot. I was tied up like off to the side. And something I don't know what spooked her, but something spooked her and she set back and then she like kind of like reared up and she snapped her halter and lead rope. And I was like, girl, and then she just stood there. I'm like, because normally, like, if a horse does that and they get spooked or like they'll run off.

SPEAKER_05 17:49

Uh-huh.

SPEAKER_03 17:50

And she just like after she snapped the lead rope, she just stood there. So I grabbed her halter and I was like, dude, like, what are you doing?

SPEAKER_01 17:57

Do horses scare you at all anymore?

SPEAKER_03 18:00

No, like when she did that, I was just like, I was like, whoa, whoa, what are you doing? What's going on? It's okay. And I was like petting her neck and I was like, it's okay, it's okay. But like, no, that didn't scare me.

SPEAKER_00 18:11

That would scare me. I'm a baby.

SPEAKER_03 18:14

It would scare me if I was standing behind her and she did that. Luckily, I was to the side.

SPEAKER_05 18:19

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 18:19

But anyway, so like today, so that kind of she just she's very unpredictable, and that's why she's not kid safe. That's why she's not very beginner safe because you don't really know what she's gonna do. Yeah. So you don't want to put a little kid on her. So we went up to the big arena, is what we call it. And she has this really bad habit of when she's loping in the arena and she sees the gate, she wants to take off and then stop right in front of the gate because she just wants to go back to her stall or like go out in the pasture. She doesn't want to work.

SPEAKER_00 18:50

Oh.

SPEAKER_03 18:51

And so we were sounds like someone I know. So we worked on that, on like getting her to lope nicely and collected and not being rude and not tossing her head. She still kind of tosses her head, but like every horse has its cork. It's never gonna be perfect. But we got her, so like me, I was working on like really keeping her, like not diving out towards the gate.

SPEAKER_00 19:17

Okay.

SPEAKER_03 19:19

So it was good for me because it it makes you as a rider like be really, really balanced and you have to steer a lot with your leg to keep her like in between your legs. And then, yeah, so it's just good to be on a horse that's not predictable. And then, like, we were in this one corner, and for some reason she was so scared of this one corner. So then it's like, okay, you're fine. You could you have to like work her up to like get the courage to like just even go stand next to the corner. So it's good for me to know like how to handle that. If I get a horse that ever spooks or does something, it's like you want you want to be able to handle anything.

SPEAKER_01 20:02

Yeah. So in a way, okay, so once you get a horse though, because in a way you're kind of like doing this and you're losing progress because it's not your horse. So you're just like kind of doing it to learn how to handle that. So then once you get your own horse though, then you'll like be able to train it. So you won't have to like repeat doing these things. Does that make sense? You know what I mean? Yes. Because in a way, you're training another horse or helping another horse.

SPEAKER_03 20:28

Yes, but because I'm also, I mean, my trainers hate when I say this because I say I'm a beginner and they're like, You're not a beginner. They would never throw a beginner on the horse that I rode today. But I just feel like you can always learn. Like, I know nothing, and I've never really been on a horse that is that unpredictable. And so it's also really good training for me in case if I'm on, say I'm on a trail or I'm in a new arena and my horse spooks, or she's tied up on the trailer and she spooks, like it's good for me to know how to handle it. So it's also training for me. I'm not just like training their horse because like they don't want to do it or like they don't know what else to do with me. Yeah, it's good training for me. And so when I get my horse, the horse that I'm gonna get will already be trained. So I want to finish horse. So then it's me who needs training, and that's why I'm kind of leaning towards more of like an older horse because I want a horse that can teach me.

SPEAKER_01 21:29

But like you've already learned a lot.

SPEAKER_03 21:31

Yeah, but you you never stop learning.

SPEAKER_01 21:36

Well, I get that.

SPEAKER_03 21:36

Like even my even my trainers, like they still take lessons or they'll still go to like clinics or like they still get trained themselves.

SPEAKER_01 21:46

Yeah. I don't know. I just think you're so yourself short. I mean sometimes you gotta get just thrown into the fire.

SPEAKER_03 21:56

Well, yeah, and that's why I'm buying a horse because I'm like I I am to the point where it's like, okay, like I do like want that next step. And the next step is getting horse.

SPEAKER_01 22:05

How old were the ones you the other ones that you looked at?

SPEAKER_03 22:08

Um, the one is eight years old.

SPEAKER_01 22:12

Uh-huh.

SPEAKER_03 22:13

Um that's good. Six and then 14.

SPEAKER_01 22:20

You know my feelings.

SPEAKER_03 22:22

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 22:23

When are you gonna make a decision though?

SPEAKER_03 22:25

I don't know. I'm I'm not in a rush.

SPEAKER_01 22:27

Yeah, there's no rush.

SPEAKER_03 22:28

There's no rush.

SPEAKER_01 22:30

But you were supposed to be in the draper rodeo this year, so I mean, yes, but it's fine.

SPEAKER_00 22:38

Next year.

SPEAKER_03 22:39

Next year. And maybe if I get a horse in the next like month, I can try to get into the alpine rodeo. Because that's not till August. But that's why I want that's why like an older horse, like 10, 13, 14, would be good because it's then it's just kind of like she knows exactly what to do. And at that point, it's she's kind of just like point and shoot, and she'll go as fast or as slow as you want. And then you kind of just sit there and hold on.

SPEAKER_01 23:10

Yeah, that's true. You might need that though, because I don't know if you're gonna ever push the horse to go fast.

SPEAKER_03 23:15

I would rather have a push-style horse where it's like you're like really, really encouraging it to go faster than a horse that is crazy and when it sees a pattern, it just wants to sprint off. And you can't you can't get it back down. I don't want a horse like that.

SPEAKER_01 23:29

Maybe you need that.

SPEAKER_03 23:31

No, I'm I'm not ready for that. That's maybe my next horse. Maybe. Yeah, I really gotta just pace. I really gotta step it up.

SPEAKER_01 23:43

That's why you see to just go for it.

SPEAKER_03 23:45

But anyway, well, this horse, she can freaking fly. Like, she's fast.

SPEAKER_01 23:49

Yeah, she's gonna be able to fly for two more years.

SPEAKER_03 23:52

No, she's old.

unknown 23:56

Oh my gosh.

SPEAKER_03 23:57

Don't act like you even know what you're talking about.

SPEAKER_01 24:01

I just love to push your buttons with this.

SPEAKER_03 24:04

Anyway, enough about the horsies.

SPEAKER_01 24:07

Are you a little annoyed? Have you been a little mad at me this week?

SPEAKER_03 24:11

No, I just I feel bad because like I could I could sit here and talk about it for hours. Oh, I know. And days. But I just feel like people get bored.

SPEAKER_01 24:18

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 24:19

And so I'm like, okay, we can stop talking about it now.

SPEAKER_01 24:21

Okay. But I just feel like you got mad at me this week. Or some at one point you were you s you you seem pretty annoyed with me.

SPEAKER_03 24:27

I wasn't annoyed with you. I mean, I'm annoyed that you're leaving, but like I get it.

SPEAKER_01 24:31

You're not annoyed at that.

SPEAKER_03 24:32

I just don't want you guys to leave. I want you guys to stay here forever.

SPEAKER_01 24:35

You want Megan, the boys.

SPEAKER_03 24:37

No, I I like when you're all here. I like when we hang out.

SPEAKER_01 24:42

Sure. Um But I did feel like you were annoyed. I can't remember what day it was. I can't remember what I did. I just remember that you were kind of like short with me. And I was like, hmm, okay, Amy's annoyed. I'll leave her alone.

SPEAKER_03 24:57

No, I would tell you if I was annoyed.

SPEAKER_01 25:00

Whatever. Whatever you say. Um also this today we got a delivery of sweatshirts.

SPEAKER_03 25:07

Ooh, did we? Yes. Are they downstairs or where did they get delivered?

SPEAKER_01 25:12

Downstairs.

SPEAKER_03 25:13

I'm gonna go look at them.

SPEAKER_01 25:14

So I want to see you give away, I think it's four or five. So we need to figure out what we're gonna do. Yeah. And if people actually won't still want them.

SPEAKER_03 25:24

You know who really, really, really wants one?

SPEAKER_01 25:26

Who?

SPEAKER_03 25:27

Jared, the guy who does our sourdough. He's texted me like five times about it.

SPEAKER_01 25:33

Is he gonna be our official sponsor of the podcast and just give us some sourdough?

SPEAKER_03 25:38

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 25:40

Okay. I don't know if I can eat that. Oh, we should do it.

SPEAKER_03 25:46

He does kamut. Can you have camute? It's so we it triggers it.

unknown 25:53

Yeah.

SPEAKER_06 25:53

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 25:54

Because she says, like Food Nanny says, even if you're celiac, camut, people who are celiac can have kamute and not like get sick or whatever.

SPEAKER_00 26:03

I'll have to try it.

SPEAKER_03 26:04

Um, but he does camute sourdough.

SPEAKER_00 26:08

Ooh, I should try that.

SPEAKER_03 26:10

Or maybe I'll ask him. I'll say, you can have a sweatshirt if you can do a gluten-free sourdough.

SPEAKER_01 26:15

I don't know if you can. Uh I mean, we could try, but we could try the camute. Let's do the camot one.

SPEAKER_03 26:20

Well, I don't want to like trigger anything.

SPEAKER_01 26:22

Well, it's like at this point, too, I'm like, I'm already getting a migraine all the time. So is the gluten.

SPEAKER_03 26:28

Are you still getting it daily?

SPEAKER_01 26:30

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 26:31

Is it worse here than it was in Virginia or is it the same?

SPEAKER_00 26:34

Same.

SPEAKER_03 26:36

Um I hope it gets better. Oh, oh, I was gonna. I saw this place on TikTok. Um, it's this new restaurant. I I wanted you to go try.

SPEAKER_01 26:47

It's a new restaurant, uh-huh.

SPEAKER_03 26:49

And it's like super, super clean.

SPEAKER_01 26:51

Oh, what is it?

SPEAKER_03 26:53

It's called.

SPEAKER_01 26:54

I need to lose like 20 pounds. How about if I lose 20 pounds, you like buy me something as a reward? You know?

SPEAKER_02 27:02

What the heck would I buy you?

SPEAKER_01 27:03

I don't know. I see like I'm on the type that has to have some sort of motivation. Usually it's like we're going on a trip. Like when we went to Hawaii, that was easy.

SPEAKER_03 27:14

If you lose 20 pounds, we'll go to Hawaii.

SPEAKER_01 27:17

No, no, no. I'm saying like when Megan and I went to Hawaii. That was like the motivation to lose weight. Oh, yeah. You know what I mean? So I was like, I always need like a little goal.

SPEAKER_03 27:25

It's in Orim next to the Costco.

SPEAKER_01 27:28

Alright, well, I'm not going to Orem. That's a little far.

SPEAKER_03 27:35

It's called like urban something. New restaurant.

SPEAKER_01 27:43

I don't know.

SPEAKER_03 27:44

Or um.

SPEAKER_01 27:45

Anyway, we needed to do some sort of giveaway.

SPEAKER_02 27:48

Um, that's not it.

SPEAKER_01 27:56

Okay. We're good. We can find it after. You know. Um, anything else going on? That you care to share?

SPEAKER_02 28:09

No.

SPEAKER_01 28:09

Nothing.

SPEAKER_02 28:11

Not a thing.

SPEAKER_01 28:13

Not one thing.

SPEAKER_02 28:15

Not one thing.

SPEAKER_01 28:17

You're so boring.

SPEAKER_03 28:19

Maybe next week.

unknown 28:22

Okay.

SPEAKER_03 28:23

We'll have something better other than Chrisina.

SPEAKER_01 28:28

Um, I was gonna ask. What do you actually how can I say this without giving away, but like how much input do you like from people on who you go out with?

SPEAKER_03 28:48

Like strangers on the internet or like you guys?

SPEAKER_01 28:51

Like family.

SPEAKER_03 28:52

Oh, I like it.

SPEAKER_01 28:54

It's never too much. I know we've talked about this a lot, but like it it can.

SPEAKER_03 28:59

It I just feel like it depends on the situation. Like right now, I know what you're thinking, and like, yeah, it's too much because today I felt like uh maybe it was a little much. No, not no, today wasn't bad.

SPEAKER_00 29:17

Okay.

SPEAKER_03 29:18

It's like after, you know, the first time. And I was like, okay, you guys don't even like know anything.

SPEAKER_06 29:29

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 29:29

That's when it gets that's when it's frustrating to me because I'm like, you've literally never even seen this person on the street.

SPEAKER_01 29:36

Would you rather have them or me or anybody be more like that's amazing? You should like you are you in love, blah blah blah. Or would you have rather have someone be more like skeptical, like asking questions, questioning? You know what I mean? Like what gets to you more? Because I feel like does one push you away, like oh, you should be in love with them, and I feel like that kind of causes you shut down, or is a skeptical kind of get in your head?

SPEAKER_03 30:05

I don't know, because I'm already kind of skeptical. Uh-huh. Just about anybody in general, just in general, about anything. Yeah, true, like literally anything I'm skeptical about.

SPEAKER_00 30:15

That's true.

SPEAKER_03 30:16

And it's funny because I used to not be like that. Like, I remember when I was like in high school being like talking to Shannon and be like, oh my gosh, you're so cynical. Like nobody's out to get you. Like, but like truly, the older I get, the more I'm like, oh no, like I'm not, I'm not cynical enough. Like Shannon was right. Like people like really do things that like don't have good intentions. And so now I just am like, oh, Shannon was right. Shannon was right about everything. Like anytime I had any issues with friends or boys or anything, and she would say something, and I was like, Oh my gosh, like you're always so cynical. Yeah, you're just like thinking the worst. And it's like, no, it's because she has the life experience that you don't have in high school or college or whatever.

SPEAKER_00 31:04

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 31:05

And she just lived longer life. Like the longer you live, the more you know.

SPEAKER_00 31:09

That is true.

SPEAKER_03 31:10

And so sometimes I don't know. I feel like it needs to be a good balance. Like it, I I do like when somebody's like, okay, like maybe you're being too cynical or too skeptical, and like you just like need to chill, and like until something happens, like don't like worry about something that hasn't happened yet. But then I also like when people are like, no, like I kind of get why, like that would cause you to like pause or like give you a stupor, if you will.

SPEAKER_01 31:47

I mean, for me, with you, it's just the way I am. I'm always taking the other side of things. I don't know why. I don't know why I do that. I just I just don't try I'm always like I want to see both sides of things. And because I think some people get caught up so much on just like seeing one side, they romanticize it. And wait, it doesn't matter what it is. Like in when we talk about on here, it's like there's always two sides to everything.

SPEAKER_03 32:12

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 32:12

So do you like when I'm clear on the other side, like questioning things?

SPEAKER_03 32:20

Yeah, like I I like I like a mix because if it was all just like one side, like I feel like that's what happened last year when they were all just like on one side.

SPEAKER_05 32:35

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 32:36

And I was I felt like I was like on an island alone and I like couldn't say anything because I was like I wasn't like I'd be even involved in that whole situation. Yeah, no, you weren't because you guys were gone, but I was like scared, like, oh well, like if I say something, like they're all gonna yell at me.

SPEAKER_05 32:53

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 32:54

And so I do like to have both.

SPEAKER_01 32:59

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 33:00

I like there to be a balance.

SPEAKER_01 33:02

Yeah. Sometimes I just I don't know. I I don't know. Sometimes uh I don't know if I'm coming in too strong, you know.

SPEAKER_03 33:13

No, I don't think you I don't think you're at the same time.

SPEAKER_01 33:15

Because I sometimes feel like it's like so many like people against you with not much other perspective sometimes. Yeah, it's all that's all coming from like a good place though. Like everyone's just very happy, excited. Yes, and I'm always kind of like, all right, let's come back down to earth. But yeah, anyway, we've talked enough about your dating in every episode.

SPEAKER_03 33:37

We really like we're so vague about that. People are gonna be like, what the F are they talking about?

SPEAKER_01 33:41

I don't think so. I think they'll be able to follow it. It wasn't as vague as you think.

SPEAKER_03 33:45

I feel like that was that's the most vague we've ever been, I feel like.

SPEAKER_01 33:49

I mean, we can be more detailed if you want.

SPEAKER_03 33:51

I mean, no, no, I I liked it. I don't want to be any.

SPEAKER_01 33:53

I mean, I I'm not the one that's trying to get all of your dating history out here, but yeah, no, no, no.

SPEAKER_03 33:59

No, no, no, no, no.

SPEAKER_01 34:00

These aren't naming names.

SPEAKER_03 34:01

No, no, we don't need to call anybody out.

SPEAKER_01 34:04

So, what happened with that DM from last week though?

SPEAKER_03 34:08

Nothing. He left me on read.

SPEAKER_01 34:11

That one actually should we check it. Genuinely piss me off.

SPEAKER_03 34:13

Should we see how long it's been?

SPEAKER_01 34:15

Genuinely pissed me off.

SPEAKER_03 34:16

No, like it actually like it crushed me a little bit. I'm not gonna lie. Seen last week. Oh that's like and I'm still just sitting in his requests.

SPEAKER_01 34:28

Like, what the heck?

SPEAKER_03 34:30

Like, that is devastating to me.

SPEAKER_01 34:33

I don't get it. But on to the next, yeah, that's all you can do. On to the next one. I don't understand.

SPEAKER_02 34:42

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 34:44

But everything's happen happens for a reason. The blinders, it's all to the right person.

SPEAKER_03 34:49

Yeah, Heavenly Father said don't respond to her.

SPEAKER_01 34:53

Yep. All getting you ready for the right person.

SPEAKER_03 34:56

He put a block on his mind.

SPEAKER_01 34:58

I truly feel like you're gonna find the person in Dallas.

SPEAKER_03 35:03

I hope so. I really do.

SPEAKER_01 35:05

I mean, it's kind of mean to say. But I'm talking about for me, like my side. I think Dallas is gonna be the spot.

SPEAKER_03 35:13

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 35:13

There's gonna be a lot more people for you to meet.

SPEAKER_03 35:15

Oh yeah.

SPEAKER_01 35:17

But are you actually gonna come down there?

SPEAKER_03 35:19

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 35:21

And are you gonna go to this like singles wars and stuff by yourself?

SPEAKER_03 35:24

Oh no, that's a I told Megan she has to come with me to the first one.

SPEAKER_01 35:30

You need to have like one Sunday where you just drive to like four of them.

SPEAKER_03 35:35

Well, there's only one.

SPEAKER_01 35:36

No, there's a couple. There's one where we live, there's one. Oh, I just searched like Dallas. Yeah, there's there's probably four or five.

SPEAKER_03 35:44

Oh, okay. Yeah, I just searched Dallas.

SPEAKER_01 35:45

Yeah. So you gotta hit them all. And then get on hinge, get swiping.

SPEAKER_03 35:51

I need to like email the bishop or something. And like have him like give me a few names of girls.

SPEAKER_01 36:02

Oh, are they a few names of guys?

SPEAKER_03 36:04

No, no, no, a few names of girls, and like we can become like friends on Instagram, and then I'll be like, oh hey, like there is a girl from business school that she knows you or like maybe knew you guys been friends. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_01 36:16

That she's gonna be in Dallas.

SPEAKER_03 36:17

So you guys But I thought you said she's married.

SPEAKER_01 36:19

No, she's single.

SPEAKER_03 36:21

Oh, I thought you said that she got married.

SPEAKER_01 36:23

No.

SPEAKER_03 36:23

Oh.

SPEAKER_01 36:24

She's single.

SPEAKER_03 36:24

And she'll go to the wards. Yeah. Oh, then there we go. Then you can go. We'll go together. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 36:28

Yeah. Do it. That'll be good. Um, what's going on in my life?

SPEAKER_03 36:33

Ugh, you leave in two days.

SPEAKER_01 36:36

Yeah, I leave. That's gonna suck.

SPEAKER_03 36:39

I just I don't want you good to go.

SPEAKER_01 36:43

So last summer I did the same thing where I would you guys or the boys in Megan stayed here, and I'd fly back every weekend. And I thought I was gonna be done with that forever. And I'm last summer. This is what is it?

SPEAKER_03 36:58

Like, it's a total of like what, like six weeks doing it?

SPEAKER_01 37:02

I bet it's gonna be closer to like 10, depending on how quickly the house goes. But I'm just expecting it to be longer and hoping it comes in sooner.

SPEAKER_02 37:11

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 37:11

If it's six weeks, that'd be amazing, but houses always take longer.

SPEAKER_03 37:15

Let's see, when is six weeks from now?

SPEAKER_01 37:17

Six weeks would be like first week of August.

SPEAKER_03 37:20

One, two, three, four, five, six. Yeah. End of July. The 30th, July 30th.

SPEAKER_01 37:27

Yeah. I don't think it'll be six weeks.

SPEAKER_03 37:30

Seven, eight is August 13th.

SPEAKER_01 37:32

Like, I'm excited to get going with my life again since I've just been like, it feels like I've been doing nothing for two years. I haven't, but that's what it kind of feels like. And uh, and have a paycheck. I need a paycheck so bad, so bad. But um it's just depressing being away from Megan and the boys. Yeah. Like I know Megan always says this to me how, and I hope this is not the case, but with some people, how husbands love to be away from their kids. You know what I mean? Like they love going to work and don't have to like do anything with their kids. I don't get it. I don't know how people do that. Like, I'm going to be, I love to hang out with the boys. Yes, do I get mad at them? Yeah, all the time, but it's gonna make me like so sad and depressed to be away from them.

SPEAKER_03 38:23

Yeah, like some husbands are like I could never like stay at home all day, like with my wife and kids. Like it like drives them crazy.

SPEAKER_01 38:30

Yeah, I mean, I love it. We especially this last three, four months, because I didn't have much schoolwork because I was pretty much done. I finished up all my requirements and stuff. I would just go golfing with the boys, go fishing every day.

SPEAKER_03 38:44

Yeah, you guys had a really fun routine.

SPEAKER_01 38:46

It was the best couple months of my life for sure. And now it's like all coming to an end. And the hardest part is it's I'm not even gonna see them at the end of the day of the work. You know what I mean? Yeah. So that is gonna be really rough. It's just going to a depressing hotel and sitting there by myself.

SPEAKER_03 39:03

Are you staying in a hotel? Are you gonna stay like on an air mattress?

SPEAKER_01 39:06

First week will be a hotel for sure. Probably the second the second week, too. And then I hope like the electrical and the plumbing will be done, and then I'll be able to put like a twin mattress on the ground. I'll just sleep on that. Cross my fingers. We'll see. Yeah. But still, that's still so depressing being in this freaking house that's like a construction zone. I'm just like sleeping on a twin mattress.

SPEAKER_03 39:28

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 39:29

With dust everywhere.

SPEAKER_03 39:30

And yeah, maybe just like stay in a hotel close to work because then you don't have to drive.

SPEAKER_01 39:35

I don't know, it's gonna be that's so expensive. Yeah. And that is actually s even more depressing. The hotels are so rough.

SPEAKER_02 39:45

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 39:45

I don't like them. I mean, I I love going with like on a trip, but when you're staying there, like last year, I was in a hotel for 10 weeks straight.

SPEAKER_03 39:54

That was Was the staff like, hey buddy? No, like you know you buy my.

SPEAKER_01 39:58

I would jump around each week. Oh, so you switched hotels a couple times, but I wasn't staying in nice hotels, like I stayed in the cheapest, like little Marriott properties possible. So I was in just like I think a town place suites is where I was most of the time, and it was not fun, not fun at all. Yeah. So that's why I'm like a little not excited today. Because I'm we just know what's happening, the countdown is on, and I'm gonna be depressed.

SPEAKER_02 40:30

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 40:31

But I'll I mean it's gonna be fun though. It'll be great. I'm grateful for a job.

SPEAKER_03 40:35

What's going on with the house update?

SPEAKER_01 40:38

House nothing major this week. I did sign the contract for a fence.

SPEAKER_03 40:44

That's good. So what fence did you guys decide end up on?

SPEAKER_01 40:48

We're doing like a ranch style cross buck, I think that's what it's called. Pretty, and it'll be six feet tall with no climb wire on the inside. So it's good because it'll give the lady visibility. So when she drives, she'll be able to see. She'll still be able to see, like hopefully on the driveway a little bit, even though we'll always have it closed. Say they're out there with us, you know, riding their bikes, she'll still be able to see that. And then it's gonna be gated, I mean, fence all the way around. They'll be not be able to get out. And I'm gonna feel a lot better with that being done before they get there. Yeah. And then it'll look great when we get chickens. It's gonna really gonna match the vibe.

SPEAKER_03 41:29

I am so excited for you to get chickens.

SPEAKER_01 41:31

Do you really think we will though?

SPEAKER_03 41:33

Did you ever watch the TikTok when it was like POV, your brother-in-law came home with a thousand chickens? No, I sent it to you and Megan.

SPEAKER_01 41:41

Literally, I can't watch TikToks.

SPEAKER_03 41:43

Thousand chickens.

SPEAKER_01 41:44

What do you do with a thousand? You have to get that's like a farm everywhere.

SPEAKER_03 41:48

I was like, uh.

SPEAKER_01 41:50

I kind of feel bad for the chickens. Like, are they gonna be able to take care of that many?

SPEAKER_03 41:54

I mean, yeah. They had like a massive barn, so okay.

SPEAKER_01 41:57

I think we'd go with four. Every time I just look at my barbecue sauce. Um, but I'm actually really excited for them if we get them.

SPEAKER_03 42:08

Do you think you will ever get a rooster?

SPEAKER_01 42:11

No.

SPEAKER_03 42:12

So that then you can have like little baby chicks and then raise them from the time they're babies.

SPEAKER_01 42:18

So I've heard a couple things about roosters because we've talked to a good amount of people about this now. The roosters can be pretty mean, but they actually keep the hands in order because there's like, you know, they talk about the pecking order. They say that's very real, and they will pick out the ones that like the other hands will pick one up uh pick on one and all that other stuff. But the roosters also like to pick their favorite lady, and you know, I've seen chickens go at it, and it's it's kind of rough.

SPEAKER_03 42:51

A cock fight?

SPEAKER_01 42:53

No. I mean, yes, a different type of cockpit.

SPEAKER_03 42:57

No, that's what they're called.

SPEAKER_01 42:58

No, no.

SPEAKER_03 42:59

Like when the roosters fight each other.

SPEAKER_01 43:00

No, I'm talking about the rooster um getting it on with his lady.

SPEAKER_03 43:04

Oh, I see. I thought you were talking about them fighting.

SPEAKER_01 43:07

No, no, no. He picks out his lady, and that's who he likes to be with, and he attacks her, pretty much, but stinks his claws in the back, pins her down.

SPEAKER_03 43:18

Oh my gosh.

SPEAKER_01 43:19

That's what happens.

SPEAKER_03 43:20

Like barbaric.

SPEAKER_01 43:21

I know.

SPEAKER_03 43:22

I mean, you want to know what's so different about that? I feel like a lot of animals, it kind of happens that way where you're like, oh, like, I don't know how consensual that is.

SPEAKER_06 43:32

No.

SPEAKER_03 43:32

But with horses, going back to the horses.

unknown 43:36

Oh my gosh.

SPEAKER_03 43:37

It's opposite. Not not opposite, but like when a mare is in heat, which is so it's like the hell does that mean? So like when a girl horse is like ovulating almost, okay, or like on her period, whatever.

SPEAKER_01 43:51

Okay.

SPEAKER_03 43:53

They call it like, and if she sees like a horse that she likes, like a stallion, or like usually not gelding. Well, sometimes gildings.

SPEAKER_01 44:01

Throw that thing in front of them.

SPEAKER_03 44:02

They call it winking. Like the mare is winking at you.

SPEAKER_01 44:07

What's winking?

SPEAKER_03 44:08

It's like she'll lift her tail up. Oh my gosh. And it like literally calls her. Zop.

SPEAKER_01 44:14

Zop.

SPEAKER_03 44:16

And then and then she's like, so then she's like inviting the horse, and then that's when they do the deed.

SPEAKER_01 44:23

I like winking is so freaking crazy. In the hand motion.

SPEAKER_06 44:31

That's what it does.

SPEAKER_01 44:37

Okay. Yeah, like chickens don't do that.

SPEAKER_03 44:40

Clearly.

SPEAKER_01 44:41

No, not at all. When I was in Mozambique, I would see, I mean, on my mission, you'd be like teaching a lesson. I'd because we did it all outside. Everything was always outside. You're sitting on like little lawn chairs sitting in the front of the people's houses. All of a sudden, just a rooster, just a dagging chicken. And you're just like Whereas like teaching a lesson about Jesus and roosters just destroying a poor chicken. Yeah, that happened a lot. So yikes. That's kind of why I don't want a rooster.

SPEAKER_03 45:13

Yeah, okay, I can understand that.

SPEAKER_01 45:14

But maybe we will eventually. And I think in some areas it's it's a like illegal to have a rooster.

SPEAKER_03 45:20

Oh, does it go against like HOA or something?

SPEAKER_01 45:22

I mean, we don't have an HOA, but I think the city has certain rules.

SPEAKER_03 45:26

Um maybe you could just like buy a hen that's already pregnant.

SPEAKER_01 45:32

I only want four.

SPEAKER_03 45:33

Okay.

SPEAKER_01 45:34

I think we're gonna start with four, and then when they stop laying, so are you gonna buy chicks? Yeah, chicks.

SPEAKER_03 45:40

And then they'll grow up. You're not just gonna full-blown go buy chickens. No. Okay. Chicks. Okay. That's cute. I like that. Because then you you'll raise them.

SPEAKER_01 45:47

Yeah, we'll pick like certain ones that have good eggs and all that stuff. Go get them. I think the boys will love raising them. Because we took Dean to go see some chickens and he he held one. He loved them.

SPEAKER_03 45:59

Dean loves animals. He is he loves all animals.

SPEAKER_01 46:03

I feel so bad that he's allergic.

SPEAKER_03 46:04

He's so allergic.

SPEAKER_01 46:05

To well, to dogs.

SPEAKER_03 46:07

Anything with hair.

SPEAKER_01 46:09

I'm one of those I want. It's kind of crazy.

unknown 46:14

What are you gonna say?

SPEAKER_01 46:14

And I think Dean will love it. But I'm hoping because of their type of hair, he'll be okay.

SPEAKER_03 46:21

What are you gonna say?

SPEAKER_01 46:22

A mini sheep.

SPEAKER_03 46:23

Oh, I thought you were gonna say like a golden doodle.

SPEAKER_01 46:25

No, no, no, no, no. I was like, he's allergic to those too. My siblings have those.

SPEAKER_03 46:30

Have I told you about like my genuine fear of golden doodles?

SPEAKER_01 46:34

Their eyes.

SPEAKER_03 46:34

No, they're humans zipped in dog suits.

SPEAKER_01 46:39

They are kind of creepy looking.

SPEAKER_03 46:40

Like they they legit give me the hub jeebies. Like whenever I see, especially the big ones. Even the little ones.

SPEAKER_01 46:45

There are some good-looking ones though. I think they look really good when they're young. They're puppies.

SPEAKER_03 46:50

They're cute puppies, but they are so scary when they get big and you're like, okay, their eyes freak me out. They like stare into your soul, and you're like, are you like trying to ask me for help? Like to unzip you?

SPEAKER_01 47:01

Like you're like looking for the zipper on the bottom.

SPEAKER_03 47:05

No, like some of them genuinely look like humans, and they're so massive, and you're just like, I'm scared.

SPEAKER_01 47:13

Anyway, um, yeah, a sheep, mini sheep. I think that'd be kind of fun. With wool. Because like I'm sure he's worn a wool sweater before.

SPEAKER_03 47:22

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 47:23

So you think maybe he want to be allergic to them. That's my hope.

SPEAKER_03 47:27

You could test it.

SPEAKER_01 47:28

But no, I think we're gonna do an allergy test first before we actually purchase.

SPEAKER_03 47:32

Well, no, I was gonna say, like, have him go like to a petting zoo and pet a sheep.

SPEAKER_01 47:38

Yeah. Maybe a goat.

SPEAKER_03 47:42

Goats are cute.

SPEAKER_01 47:42

No, goats aren't really cute to me, actually.

SPEAKER_03 47:44

They're really cute babies when they when they get like grown. They're also kind of kind of scary.

SPEAKER_01 47:49

Yeah. And they kind of get aggressive.

SPEAKER_03 47:52

Yeah, they'll like ram you.

SPEAKER_01 47:53

Yeah. I don't know. Maybe we're just gonna turn into a little farm out in the backyard. I mean, we're gonna have chickens. Get some sheep. There you go.

SPEAKER_03 48:04

I love it.

SPEAKER_01 48:05

I love it too.

SPEAKER_03 48:06

Maybe you could get like miniature ponies.

unknown 48:09

Okay.

SPEAKER_01 48:10

Let's not go that far. Actually, because Megan's allergic. Okay.

SPEAKER_03 48:14

Why do we have so many allergies? You guys like really are so allergenic.

SPEAKER_01 48:19

Like, what's happening with us?

SPEAKER_03 48:20

I don't know.

SPEAKER_01 48:21

Cause like me with my gluten thing.

SPEAKER_03 48:24

Yeah, you guys are just honestly a bunch of that was mean. I'm just kidding. But like it is interesting because like well I actually don't know if Emily and Rachel are allergic to I mean, I was never allergic to anything. Horses and hay like Megan is.

SPEAKER_01 48:42

Megan is very allergic.

SPEAKER_03 48:44

Oh, so like if I come into the house and I don't like after a horse lesson and I don't wash my clothes immediately, like she'll like have hives and her eyes will go red.

SPEAKER_01 48:55

And then I mean Dean is the same way. Yeah. But dogs, it is so bad. Anyway, um, so that's the update on the house. I'm trying to think if there's anything else crazy happening. Um I did call about the septic tank since that was big drama.

SPEAKER_03 49:13

And I tried to see we find it.

SPEAKER_01 49:15

We found it, but I also tried to see if we could connect it to the public sewer.

SPEAKER_03 49:18

Oh yeah? Can you?

SPEAKER_01 49:20

Yeah, no.

SPEAKER_03 49:21

No, well much.

SPEAKER_01 49:23

It would be insanely expensive.

SPEAKER_03 49:25

Like how much?

SPEAKER_01 49:26

I don't even know.

SPEAKER_03 49:28

Because you didn't ask.

SPEAKER_01 49:29

Well, I just talked to like the city engineer.

SPEAKER_02 49:31

Oh, okay.

SPEAKER_01 49:32

And he told me, I guess, because you know, your sewer has to be down, like the gravity is how you get your sewer out into the street. And our house sits level with the bottom of the sewer like pipe. So you'd have to have like a special pump to get it out and yeah, just stick with the septic tank. Yeah, we're screwed. We're screwed.

SPEAKER_03 49:53

I didn't even know that there was such a thing as a septic tank until you guys moved to Virginia. Because I just thought it was just like all like public sewer, like how it is here.

SPEAKER_01 50:02

Well, there's even places here that have septic.

SPEAKER_03 50:04

Yeah, but I didn't know that because like we never had a septic tank. Uh I just like never had to worry about that. You know what else? What I found out maybe like two years ago. What this might be TMI for you. You're not supposed to flush tampons down the toilet.

SPEAKER_01 50:20

Oh my gosh. Yeah, I had to teach Megan that.

SPEAKER_03 50:23

Yeah, no, I just thought you could flush it down.

SPEAKER_01 50:26

That is insane.

SPEAKER_03 50:27

I've I've never not flushed a tampon down a toilet.

SPEAKER_01 50:32

So that is actually kind of crazy. You are definitely not supposed to flush tampons. Even I knew that.

SPEAKER_03 50:41

I didn't know that.

SPEAKER_01 50:42

I why do you think they have the little containers in the girl the women's bathrooms?

SPEAKER_03 50:46

Oh, no, okay. So when I'm in like a public bathroom and it says do not flush feminine products, I don't flush them. I'll put them in the container.

SPEAKER_01 50:53

But when we get home, it's okay.

SPEAKER_03 50:54

Well, I just thought that like their plumbing couldn't handle it, but like our plumbing could. Like I thought we had like nicer plumbing or something.

SPEAKER_01 51:01

Industrial grade plumbing in here.

SPEAKER_03 51:03

Like, I don't know. I just was like, that's so crazy. Because like when we all started our periods, like that's what Emily did, that's what Rachel did, that's what Megan did. So I just was like, oh okay, I'll flush it.

SPEAKER_01 51:16

That's crazy.

SPEAKER_03 51:17

Like our mom, my mom and dad were never like, okay, no, never. They said never flush a pad down and never flush the applicator.

SPEAKER_01 51:24

Listen to this.

SPEAKER_03 51:25

But they never said don't flush the tampon.

SPEAKER_01 51:29

You're disgusting. Um, I was talking to someone about their septic tank. They were saying they don't even flush the toilet paper down because they want to keep their septic tank good.

SPEAKER_03 51:40

What do you do with it? Doesn't it just dissolve?

SPEAKER_01 51:43

That's what I thought.

SPEAKER_03 51:44

Isn't that what toilet paper is like?

SPEAKER_01 51:45

But then they put the chemicals in there to like dissolve the toilet paper like a porta potty, you know? That's kind of what a septic tank is. Um but anyway, so they would they take the toilet paper and just put it in the garbage next to them.

SPEAKER_03 51:59

Wouldn't that like sink? Wouldn't it start to smell like pea and shathid?

SPEAKER_01 52:04

Yeah. Really not.

SPEAKER_03 52:06

Speaking of shathid, you want to know what Canon said to me the other day.

SPEAKER_01 52:08

And can you explain what Shatheed is?

SPEAKER_03 52:11

Canon goes, I finally understand what shatheed is. I was like, oh cool, what is it? And he was like, and I was like, yeah.

SPEAKER_06 52:19

You're an idiot.

SPEAKER_03 52:20

No, when I was like in like junior high, me and my friends started saying it because like you can't like walk around saying S-H-I-T head.

SPEAKER_01 52:32

You guys thought you were so cool.

SPEAKER_03 52:33

And so we started saying Shatheed. And then it like it became like a funny, like um some girl like on Vine or something, or like Twitter, like made like a song about like Shatheed.

SPEAKER_01 52:47

You're saying you said it before. I'm you came up with this.

SPEAKER_03 52:53

I mean and my friends said it in like middle school and like early high school, and then we saw a video and we were like, oh my gosh, like we're not the only ones who say shit. So then, like anytime like anything happens, like you drop your phone, oh Shiteed, or it's like, I gotta go Shahid, be right back. And so Canon was like, I he was like, I know what Shat is, and I was like, Oh, really? What is it? And he was like, I saw it, like texted, he saw it like on his mom's text, and he like read it, and he like it like finally clicked. That's so funny, and he was like, Yeah, I was like, yeah, and he was like Shatid, he like thinks he's so funny.

SPEAKER_01 53:29

Actually, terrified for my boys become little teenagers or like start getting to his age because they start to like put things together, and I just remember when I was that age, and you just become like your brain only focuses on that stuff all the time, yeah. It's kind of wild.

SPEAKER_03 53:49

Yeah, I don't know what it's like because like I never had brothers, and like girls, I just feel like like I I played Barbies until I was 14 years old.

SPEAKER_01 53:58

That's insane.

SPEAKER_03 54:00

So I just like girl raising girls and boys is just like so different.

SPEAKER_01 54:05

Yeah, I know Megan is not prepared for that.

SPEAKER_03 54:08

No, because boys are because like even like and just disgusting, even like on Sunday, like we were asking Capri, because like her some of her friends have like started kissing boys, and we're like, Capri, have you ever kissed anyone? And she's like, Oh my gosh, no, like I have braces on. Not like, oh my gosh, no, I would never, yeah, exactly. My braces are stopping me, yeah, just her braces. And Canon like started laughing so hard, and he was like, You're gonna kiss somebody. And we were like, That's like why it's so funny, but like he was dying laughing, and I was like, I don't get why that's like so funny, yeah.

SPEAKER_01 54:49

It's kind of wild. Like boys, but that age, it's like everything you do has to do with like girls, like going to school, you're going to a locker looking for the girls you're gonna see, you're going into your class, looking at the girls in your course. It's like all the time.

SPEAKER_03 55:06

Do you get used to it and kind of just tune it out? Or like is there an age where it stops or it just never stops?

SPEAKER_01 55:12

No, I think as you get into I think as you get into high school, you kind of like maybe stop obsessing over it all the time because it's not like because that's like so new, you know, when it stops becoming so new and like novel, you just like get used to it, then you're like used to it, and so you're not like all the time focusing on it. It's just like here, but it's still it's just like right here in the back of your mind. Yeah, exactly. It's kind of weird. That's crazy. But meanwhile, you're playing with Barbies. I was playing with Barbies and Cheetah Girls at the age of 29.

SPEAKER_03 55:47

I know, and first of all, I'm 28.

SPEAKER_01 55:49

Okay, my bad.

SPEAKER_03 55:50

And second of all, once again, Cheetah Girls is art, especially the second one when they are in Spain. Barcelona. Bartalona.

SPEAKER_00 56:01

Why do you say it like that?

SPEAKER_03 56:03

That's how we're supposed to say it. Bartalona. That's how you're supposed to say it. It's like ebita.

SPEAKER_01 56:11

Bartalona. You just have a lisp.

SPEAKER_03 56:14

That's how they say it.

SPEAKER_01 56:16

Who is they?

SPEAKER_03 56:18

The Spaniards. The I I don't know if they're called like the Barcelona's.

unknown 56:26

What?

SPEAKER_01 56:27

There's no TH in it.

SPEAKER_03 56:30

That is how they say it.

SPEAKER_01 56:31

Oh, no. No shot. No shot.

SPEAKER_03 56:35

They don't say Barcelona, they say Barcelona and Ibiza. Because Ibiza is spelled Ibiza, but they say it Ibita.

SPEAKER_01 56:44

There's no T in it.

SPEAKER_03 56:46

It doesn't matter.

SPEAKER_01 56:48

How do Spaniards say pronounce Barcelona? Pronounce Barcelona.

SPEAKER_03 57:00

You act like I'm not cultured and I am.

SPEAKER_01 57:02

Bar okay. Barcelona is pronounced like that or Bartalona. In a local language.

SPEAKER_03 57:10

See.

SPEAKER_01 57:12

Catalans sound like Barcelona.

SPEAKER_03 57:18

How do natives pronounce?

SPEAKER_01 57:23

It depends on who.

SPEAKER_03 57:24

It's like when people say, like we say Hawaii and people say Hawaii.

unknown 57:32

You're a freaking idiot.

SPEAKER_01 57:35

No, it's just two different kind of like um, it's more like southern people and like Utah's have a major accent. Like mountains and mountains.

unknown 57:49

There's always a joke, uh people.

SPEAKER_01 57:52

Oh my gosh. Barcelona.

unknown 57:53

It's not saying like a local Barcelona.

SPEAKER_02 57:56

Barcelona.

SPEAKER_01 57:58

Thank you.

unknown 58:02

Barcelona.

SPEAKER_01 58:03

Ah, there we go, you freaking idiot.

unknown 58:06

The name of the city. Barcelona? Barona?

SPEAKER_03 58:10

Barcelona.

SPEAKER_01 58:12

Oh.

SPEAKER_03 58:13

See Barcelona, and it was the Czech.

unknown 58:16

Barcelona.

SPEAKER_01 58:16

I think, yeah, there's there's like two different pronunciations. I guess one is yours. And you sound really bad saying it, so let's keep it.

SPEAKER_03 58:26

Well, it's because Angel in Cheetah Girls.

SPEAKER_01 58:29

Oh my gosh.

SPEAKER_03 58:30

Angels. In the song, he says Bartholona. So I'm going with what Angel is saying.

SPEAKER_01 58:41

Whatever.

SPEAKER_03 58:42

Anyway, back to what I was saying about the Cheetah Girls. It's art. And you know what else was art?

SPEAKER_05 58:48

What?

SPEAKER_03 58:49

The storylines I had for my Barbies. Everyone had a storyline. They were like very versatile.

SPEAKER_01 58:58

Why are we talking about this?

SPEAKER_03 58:59

Because I actually think it's kind of interesting. I want to tell you some of my storylines, ready? Kind of morbid now that I'm thinking about it. There was one Barbie that I left out in the sun. Because in our old, old house, we had a pool.

SPEAKER_05 59:13

Okay.

SPEAKER_03 59:13

And I was like playing like mermaids. And then I left it out in the sun. And so it kind of like ruined her arm. She had like spots, like melted spots. So then her storyline became she got skin cancer.

unknown 59:25

Oh god.

SPEAKER_01 59:29

Like your memory, the things you remember are insane.

SPEAKER_03 59:32

No, let me continue.

SPEAKER_01 59:33

Can't remember anything from school, but you remember this.

SPEAKER_03 59:36

Exactly. So then another Barbie that I had, she had like weird like blue and purple spots like on her legs and on her arms. So then her storyline was she she was a battered housewife. I was straight up like five with the storyline. Do you have clear?

SPEAKER_01 59:58

She was a what?

SPEAKER_03 59:59

She was abused.

SPEAKER_01 1:00:01

A battered housewife.

SPEAKER_03 1:00:02

A battered.

SPEAKER_01 1:00:03

A battered. I think it's an abattered housewife.

SPEAKER_03 1:00:05

No, a battered housewife. She had a crazy husband.

SPEAKER_01 1:00:09

Oh.

SPEAKER_03 1:00:09

And he was really ugly and mean.

SPEAKER_01 1:00:11

Okay. Um, then I had another Barbie who was like our podcast just be storylines we come up with from your Barbies.

SPEAKER_03 1:00:20

Yeah. So then I had another Barbie.

SPEAKER_01 1:00:22

Uh-huh.

SPEAKER_03 1:00:23

And we had like this pioneer dress. So she was a polygamist.

SPEAKER_06 1:00:29

Gotcha.

SPEAKER_03 1:00:30

And she was like trying to escape. And like the other Barbie friends were like helping escape polygamy.

SPEAKER_01 1:00:36

You were five?

SPEAKER_03 1:00:38

Yeah. And I never switched up the storylines.

SPEAKER_01 1:00:41

Like, he was going to like your 10?

SPEAKER_03 1:00:43

Until I was like 15. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:00:44

Oh, sorry. I forgot. You were in freshman high school playing Barbies.

SPEAKER_03 1:00:48

And then like the brats, because then I got into brat stalls.

SPEAKER_01 1:00:50

Okay.

SPEAKER_03 1:00:51

And they were like the hot new girls on the block. And then like all my Barbies were like jealous of them because all the guys wanted the hot brat girls. And then my scene came into the picture. And the Mycene girls were like, they became like the older version of the Bratstalls. Okay. And so like the Bratzalls were like the teens. And then the Mycene girls were like the older girls who were like dating, and they were like the little sisters who like annoyed the Mycene girls. And then I had a girl, Midge. She could, she had a magnetic pregnant belly. So you could make her pregnant. And she had on this nightgown. And she was always pregnant. Like, poor girl never had a break. And she just that was her storyline. She was just pregnant. And then she would like give birth. So then you take off the baby or like the bump. And then like you'd put the baby in her arms because her arms were like you could move her arms. So then she could hold two babies. She always had twins too, a boy and a girl. And then she could hold her babies. And then she would write back to it. She was pregnant again.

SPEAKER_01 1:02:01

This is actually insane.

SPEAKER_03 1:02:04

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:02:04

How do you remember that?

SPEAKER_03 1:02:06

I remember Rachel's one of Rachel's storylines. Actually, I don't remember her storyline, but I remember vividly we had this little, like little boy.

SPEAKER_01 1:02:14

Okay.

SPEAKER_03 1:02:14

This little Ken boy. He looked like he was probably like seven.

SPEAKER_01 1:02:19

Your storyline's gonna put me to sleep.

SPEAKER_03 1:02:21

And he had a bowl cut, and I always wanted him to be like my little boy, but she would never let him be my little boy. It was always her little boy, and you want to know what his name was?

SPEAKER_05 1:02:31

What?

SPEAKER_03 1:02:31

Hogarth. She thought she was like breaking through glass ceilings with that name. And it was always Hogarth every single time.

SPEAKER_01 1:02:42

Hogarth sounds like he should be leading with Shrek.

SPEAKER_03 1:02:45

Yeah, no, and that was and she was like, I'm gonna name my little boy Hogarth. Like she thought she like really did something with that. And I remember it vividly because I was always like, the f kind of name is Hogarth.

SPEAKER_01 1:02:58

The problem is, I guarantee in five-year-old as you're five, like five-year-old Amy was thinking those exact words.

SPEAKER_03 1:03:04

No, I was. And then like I yeah, so back to my battered housewife. She always got saved. Like, I just want everyone to know.

SPEAKER_01 1:03:13

She made it through.

SPEAKER_03 1:03:14

She always got saved, and her abusive husband went to jail every time.

SPEAKER_01 1:03:19

How many times did she get abused?

unknown 1:03:22

I don't know.

SPEAKER_03 1:03:22

Well, that was always her storyline. Poor girl. Why else would she have bruises on her? I don't know. Maybe she do you want to know where I got that storyline from?

SPEAKER_01 1:03:30

Yeah, maybe she had tattoos.

SPEAKER_03 1:03:32

No, she didn't have tattoos because they were like so clearly bruises. That's also why I thought Toy Story was like so real for so long because I was like, no, like we should go see Toy Story. I legit think when I go to bed, this guy is beating up my Barbie. And that's why she is bruises. Why else would a Barbie doll have bruises on it?

SPEAKER_01 1:03:52

Just getting abused while you're sleeping.

SPEAKER_03 1:03:54

Yeah, I felt so bad for her. Anyway, you want to know where I got that storyline from?

SPEAKER_00 1:03:59

I don't know.

SPEAKER_03 1:04:00

Have you ever seen the movie Enough with Jennifer Lopez?

SPEAKER_00 1:04:02

No.

SPEAKER_03 1:04:03

She marries this guy, she thinks he's like the best guy. He's so nice, he's so charismatic. They get married, starts abusing her. For some strange reason, me and Megan watched that a lot when we were little.

SPEAKER_01 1:04:15

No, you guys watched some interesting shows.

SPEAKER_03 1:04:18

That and Moulin Rouge were like our top two favorite movies when we were little. And white chicks. That was like on a solid rotation.

SPEAKER_01 1:04:26

Yeah, you guys watched some interesting shows. They really shaped you too.

SPEAKER_03 1:04:30

No, and they clearly I would it shaped my my storylines.

SPEAKER_01 1:04:34

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 1:04:34

And you want to know what else I loved?

SPEAKER_01 1:04:37

What?

SPEAKER_03 1:04:38

Desperate Housewives. Have you ever seen Desperate Housewives?

SPEAKER_01 1:04:41

No.

SPEAKER_03 1:04:41

Oh my god.

SPEAKER_01 1:04:42

Who do you think I am? No, like I just told you.

SPEAKER_03 1:04:46

Every Sunday night, Emily's friend Scott would come over.

SPEAKER_01 1:04:50

Okay.

SPEAKER_03 1:04:50

And we would watch Desperate Housewives every Sunday night. And like, mind you, Emily was in high school, so I was six or seven watching Desperate Housewives. And for those of you who have seen Desperate Housewives, you know how crazy that show is to be watching as a six or seven year old. It was my favorite show.

SPEAKER_01 1:05:11

Yeah. I'm not surprised.

SPEAKER_03 1:05:14

Honestly, you and Megan should watch it together because I actually think you would like it.

SPEAKER_01 1:05:18

Desperate Housewives.

SPEAKER_03 1:05:19

It's not like real housewives.

SPEAKER_01 1:05:21

Well, how's it better?

SPEAKER_03 1:05:23

Because, well, it's a scripted show, so there's like it's not reality TV. No, no, no, no, no, no, no. It's scripted. It was on ABC, like 3. What the heck is that sound?

SPEAKER_01 1:05:35

I feel like the roof is gonna come down here on us.

SPEAKER_03 1:05:39

That's crazy.

SPEAKER_01 1:05:40

Anyway.

SPEAKER_03 1:05:41

Anyway, it actually is funny and crazy, and I actually think you would like it. I'm not kidding.

SPEAKER_01 1:05:48

Okay. I will take that in, digest it, and see what comes out.

SPEAKER_03 1:05:54

Yeah. Maybe like on your flight to Dallas, you could like watch episode one.

unknown 1:06:00

Probably not.

SPEAKER_01 1:06:00

You know what I am watching though?

SPEAKER_03 1:06:02

What?

SPEAKER_01 1:06:03

I wish you had watched. D how do you do it like kind of scary shows?

SPEAKER_03 1:06:07

No, I can't do scary shows.

SPEAKER_01 1:06:08

Like, what's the scariest show you watch?

SPEAKER_03 1:06:10

I couldn't even watch I tried to watch Stranger Things. I got too scary.

SPEAKER_01 1:06:13

That was too scary?

SPEAKER_03 1:06:14

It gave me weird dreams. I didn't like it.

SPEAKER_01 1:06:17

I'm watching, I just finished this one show called Widow's Bay.

SPEAKER_03 1:06:21

Like how scary.

SPEAKER_01 1:06:22

Because like this one, that one's a little more like a lot of haunted stuff.

SPEAKER_03 1:06:25

Oh no, no, I can't do haunted stuff. I can do like I like criminal minds.

SPEAKER_01 1:06:30

Uh-huh.

SPEAKER_03 1:06:30

I like SBU. I like NCIS. CSI Miami. One of my.

SPEAKER_01 1:06:35

And you might watch the other one. But hold on. Let me tell you about Widow Bay.

SPEAKER_03 1:06:39

Dexter scared me. I don't like that. I can't watch Dexter.

SPEAKER_01 1:06:41

Dexter was too much. It was too much like cutting. Yeah, it was real graphic. Yeah, I didn't like that one. But um, Widow's Bay. It's about this guy. He's the mayor of this island that it's haunted. But he like didn't he just keeps denying that it's haunted. Um, because he wants it to become the next Martha's Vineyard. Because he wants Taurus to come. And so it's all about like how they invite Taurus to come, and then all this haunted stuff starts to happen. But it's the weirdest show because it's scary, but then some of the scary parts are so corny. Oh. Like where this girl's like running away from the boogeyman and he's just like walking and has a knife, and like she's like fake running fast. You know, it's just it's just weird.

SPEAKER_03 1:07:29

But did you ever watch American Horror Story?

unknown 1:07:31

No.

SPEAKER_03 1:07:32

I I watched one episode in high school at my friend's house.

SPEAKER_05 1:07:36

Uh-huh.

SPEAKER_03 1:07:38

It traumatized me. Oh my gosh. It was no, it was so scary. It was like this clown that like kidnapped children and like killed them.

SPEAKER_01 1:07:46

Okay, that would traumatize you.

SPEAKER_03 1:07:47

And I was like not good after that.

SPEAKER_01 1:07:51

This one's not that scary. Not like that. But anyway, it it like ends the first season of might be a spoiler alert, but the island's like alive and you have to like sacrifice people to like make it happy. Okay, that's it. It was kind of weird. And it ended so odd. Other show though, which I think you should watch, is called Cape Fear.

SPEAKER_02 1:08:11

Never heard of it.

SPEAKER_01 1:08:12

It is what is it on? Apple TV. Oh. Happening right now. New episode. I think just dropped. Because it's for Friday. Um but it's about this guy who just got, is it called exonerated? When like they're not found guilty while they've already been in prison.

SPEAKER_02 1:08:30

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:08:31

And so he was in prison for like, I don't know, 12 years or something like that. And then, but his lawyer was the one that told him to plead guilty. And then lawyer ended up.

SPEAKER_02 1:08:40

Was the lawyer the one that did it?

SPEAKER_01 1:08:42

No.

SPEAKER_02 1:08:43

Oh.

SPEAKER_01 1:08:44

I don't know. But the lawyer was the one uh well, she ended up um marrying the prosecutor. And so they like started having a thing during the trial.

SPEAKER_03 1:08:56

And so it was like so then he would like tell him to plead guilty.

SPEAKER_01 1:09:00

I don't know what happens yet with all of like there's some secret background of like what happened between the two during the trial, but the guy that gets out of prison is pissed because he was found guilty for killing his wife.

SPEAKER_03 1:09:12

But he didn't kill her, and or you don't know for sure if he did or not.

SPEAKER_01 1:09:15

And she was pregnant with the baby, so it's like double homicide. Yeah, yeah. And so, but he gets out because he's found innocent because this girl writes a note and then kills herself. Yeah, it was kind of graphic. That was the start of the show, it was pretty graphic.

SPEAKER_03 1:09:28

But yeah, I don't like that.

SPEAKER_01 1:09:30

It's good though. So did he do it or did he not do it? I don't know.

SPEAKER_03 1:09:35

What's your gut telling you? Who did it? What's your prediction?

SPEAKER_01 1:09:39

So the okay, so the lawyer and her husband keep talking about like no one knows about this, right? Like, we have to keep it a secret, I can't say anything. So, like, they did something.

SPEAKER_03 1:09:51

Mm-hmm. And this reminds me a little bit of a book I read once.

SPEAKER_01 1:09:55

Really? And so, like, they did something in collaboration, cahoots, during the trial, and the guy seems to know that they did that because he whispered to in her in her ear of a lawyer that's like I didn't tell anybody what you did. And so, like, and is she like or she's like, what are you talking about? You know? And then, but then like there's weird things that are happening with the guy that got out of prison, and the lawyer's son were like he got his toe cut off because he was drugged, and then he ate the toe. And so, like, and the lawyer thinks that was because of the guy that got out of prison. There's some weird things happening and waiting for all the dots to be connected because it's still early in the show.

SPEAKER_03 1:10:41

Is this just the first season?

SPEAKER_01 1:10:42

Yeah, this is episode there's only three episodes out so far. I honestly think you would like it. It's not too scary.

SPEAKER_03 1:10:50

I read a book, this is what it's reminding me of. I read a book, I think it's called The Perfect Marriage, or maybe just the marriage.

SPEAKER_05 1:10:56

Uh-huh.

SPEAKER_03 1:10:57

And it's this lawyer, she's like this bade lawyer, uh-huh, criminal defense lawyer. And her husband is put on trial for murdering somebody. And I'm if I'm remembering correctly, I read it so long ago. If I'm remembering correctly, at the beginning, you don't know that it's her husband. You just think that like she's working a case and trying to like get this guy off. And then you like pieces start coming together, and then you realize, like, oh, they're married.

SPEAKER_01 1:11:30

And then um there's like one kind of like this on Apple TV.

SPEAKER_03 1:11:34

He ends up going to jail for it. Like, she doesn't ever get him off, even though she's like trying. And then at the very end of the book, it all comes together that he was having an affair, and the girl that he was like on trial for murdering was his girlfriend, and it was the attorney, it was his wife, the lawyer, who killed her and framed him for it. And then he's still he went, she sent him to jail.

SPEAKER_01 1:12:01

That's kind of similar to have you heard of presumed innocent, very similar. But it ended up being their son that killed the girlfriend that he was having an affair with. Anyway. Interesting. It was really good. You should watch that one too.

SPEAKER_03 1:12:16

Okay, I'll watch it if you watch Desperate Housewives.

SPEAKER_01 1:12:18

No. Well, why can't we just like come to an agreement on one show that's not like trash TV?

SPEAKER_03 1:12:26

It's not trash TV, you know.

SPEAKER_01 1:12:28

Desperate Housewives?

SPEAKER_03 1:12:30

Okay, you're thinking of like trash, like real housewives of Salt Lake.

SPEAKER_00 1:12:35

Yes.

SPEAKER_03 1:12:36

Which amazing. Phenomenal, by the way. Absolute cinema.

SPEAKER_00 1:12:39

Okay.

SPEAKER_03 1:12:40

Desperate Housewives, though, is so good. You need to watch it. It has Ava Longorian in it.

SPEAKER_01 1:12:46

Eva? Or is that Ava?

SPEAKER_03 1:12:48

Eva? I don't know. I don't know.

SPEAKER_01 1:12:50

What what that really is supposed to sell me?

SPEAKER_03 1:12:52

Well, she's just like iconic.

unknown 1:12:56

Okay, whatever.

SPEAKER_01 1:12:57

Whatever. I am I probably want to give that a try, but you should try it with the cake fear. It's so good. Oh, we have a new episode out.

SPEAKER_03 1:13:05

Wait, is that the one with the haunted island?

SPEAKER_01 1:13:07

No, no, no. That's Widows Bay.

SPEAKER_03 1:13:08

Oh.

SPEAKER_01 1:13:09

I know, they're kind of like similar names. Um Okay. I had a new thing for us to try. Called Whose Responsibility Is It?

SPEAKER_02 1:13:24

Okay.

SPEAKER_01 1:13:26

I want to do some dating questions. Okay. And then for also for marriage. And we're supposed to talk about is it the husband or wife, or is it the boy or girl? Whose responsibility is it to be in the relationship?

SPEAKER_02 1:13:39

Okay.

SPEAKER_01 1:13:39

Because I want to hear your opinion.

SPEAKER_02 1:13:40

Okay, go.

SPEAKER_01 1:13:43

Whose responsibility is it to plan the dates? And does it stay that way after date three?

SPEAKER_03 1:13:52

Um okay, I I'm mixed about this.

SPEAKER_05 1:13:56

Okay.

SPEAKER_03 1:13:57

In my opinion, it's whoever asks the person out. So, like, if the guy is like, hey, we should go out, okay, you need to plan the date. If the girl makes the first move and she's like, hey, we should do something.

SPEAKER_01 1:14:13

What if the girl says, hey, you should ask me out? You know what I mean? Because that's I feel like that's a common phrase. Because then it's like she's putting it on him.

SPEAKER_03 1:14:25

But like she's like, I don't think I've ever said to a guy, you should ask me out. I like I've said we should go out.

SPEAKER_01 1:14:31

Yeah, that's okay. So then are you initiating the date there or not?

SPEAKER_03 1:14:38

That's a good question. I don't know. I would for the first little while, I think the guy should. And like the girl can give inputs like, oh, we should go do this, we should do this, or whatever, or like, oh, I've always wanted to go do this. And then if the guy hears that, then it's like, okay, remember that. And then plan something. But especially on like a first date, even if the girl makes the first move and is like, hey, you're cute, we should go out. Then the guy is like, I mean, hello, that's like a home run. It's like, okay, yeah, let's let's go to dinner.

SPEAKER_01 1:15:10

It doesn't have to be, yeah, I get that.

SPEAKER_03 1:15:12

It doesn't have to be anything crazy. It's like, yeah, let's let's go to dinner. I'll make us a reservation. How hard is that? The guy should be doing that, especially on the first date.

SPEAKER_01 1:15:20

Okay, but then do you feel like then it just falls into that pattern that it always has to be the guy?

SPEAKER_03 1:15:29

No.

SPEAKER_01 1:15:30

I'm trying to think if Megan ever planned a date. Maybe a couple.

SPEAKER_03 1:15:37

Like, the thing is, like, I just feel like we always have something going on, so it's like, oh, like, come come to a BYU game. That could technically be like a planned date. Or like, oh, I have tickets to a rodeo. That's it's considered like a planned date because like you're going to do something that's already planned. I already have the tickets and I'm inviting you to come with me.

SPEAKER_01 1:15:58

Yeah. Or it's like, I can agree with that.

SPEAKER_03 1:16:01

Like a lot of times, like me and my friends, like we when we would get tickets to like Morgan Wallen or whoever, we would always buy an extra ticket and be like, hey, everybody has to bring at eight. Yeah. And then we'd ask like the guy, like, hey, do you want to come to Morgan Wallen with me? Yeah, I think that's for a few years and then I gave up.

SPEAKER_01 1:16:24

Really worked. Um, I can agree with that.

SPEAKER_03 1:16:29

I actually saw a TikTok about this, kind of, and I actually commented on his TikTok and I said, I think I'm in love. Let's see. Comment history.

SPEAKER_01 1:16:39

You commented and said, What? That you're in love with him?

SPEAKER_03 1:16:42

Yeah. I said, I think I'm in love. Are you single? He hasn't responded.

SPEAKER_01 1:16:48

You're shooting shots in commons though?

SPEAKER_03 1:16:50

Yeah. He said, pregnancy won't be 50-50, birth won't be 50-50, breastfeeding won't be 50-50, the mental load won't be 50-50, postpartum recovery will not be 50-50. Sleepless nights won't be 50-50. The physical changes on her body will not be 50-50. So no, I will not be splitting this date or any future date ever. And I said. Amen, cowboy. Because he's a cowboy look.

SPEAKER_01 1:17:20

Okay. Well, I'm glad he got you with that one.

SPEAKER_03 1:17:24

Twenty-three hours ago, I commented.

SPEAKER_01 1:17:26

Devastating. I mean, I never made I don't think Megan ever paid for a date. Yeah, never Megan never paid for date or anything.

SPEAKER_02 1:17:36

No.

SPEAKER_01 1:17:37

Um. Okay, next question. Which we just kind of didn't answer that one. Whose responsibility is it to have the what are we text? I mean what are we? Talk, not text.

SPEAKER_03 1:17:57

This is also tough. I have mixed feelings about this one too.

SPEAKER_01 1:17:59

So I usually feel like girls wait for the guys to bring that up.

SPEAKER_03 1:18:03

Mm-hmm.

SPEAKER_01 1:18:05

But then guys can be pretty slow to get to that point.

SPEAKER_03 1:18:07

This is what I think. From my experience and from like hearing things from my friends. When I always wanted to be like have like the DTR, which is like define the relationship. For those who don't know what that acron acronym is, um it's because like I wanted obviously to date them. Or like it was getting to the point where it's like, okay, we've been talking for six months, like either we're gonna date or like don't talk to me.

SPEAKER_06 1:18:38

Yeah, you know? Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 1:18:40

Um and so I always would kind of drag my feet and be like, well, like he needs to bring it up, or he needs to, and it's like whoever is feeling like, okay, like I don't want to waste any more time. Like, either we're gonna date or we're not gonna date, needs to bring it up. And especially now that I'm older and all my friends who are still dating, typically it's always the girl bringing it up, and it's always the guy being like, I'm not ready. And then the girl is like, Okay, well, we've been talking for five months, so if you're not ready, then like I can't waste any more time on moving on.

SPEAKER_01 1:19:26

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 1:19:27

And not to get it's not to give them an ultimatum, but it's like if you don't really know after five months if you even want to like be an ex exclusive with them, I think my phone died and I need it. I think there might be a bigger issue. So at that point, the guy is just having, in my opinion, he's just having his cake and eating it too, because he can hang out with you, he can talk to all the other girls. And I don't like that.

SPEAKER_06 1:20:01

I can't.

SPEAKER_03 1:20:02

Especially after after like three or four months, it's like, okay, you know what's crazy. You know if you want to date somebody exclusively or not.

SPEAKER_01 1:20:12

When I hear those stories of like people hanging out for like six months and not being like there's no boyfriend, girlfriend, and like what's the next one? One of the two is not in it at all.

SPEAKER_03 1:20:27

They just want to keep having his cake and eating it too.

SPEAKER_01 1:20:31

Hooking up.

SPEAKER_03 1:20:31

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:20:32

And then hooking up with other chicks too.

SPEAKER_03 1:20:34

Exactly.

SPEAKER_01 1:20:35

Or the I'm not ready to like post you on Instagram, but they're still posting like stories, whether it's a boy or girl, and they don't want to show you after like a couple months. That's like, okay, then you're still trying to signal you're open to certain people.

SPEAKER_02 1:20:50

Yeah.

unknown 1:20:50

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:20:51

So I get that one. Um sorry, my phone died. Let's see. Okay, I can. Who drives to whom? Um We kind of talked about this once.

SPEAKER_03 1:21:06

Yeah, I also I I again I'm so mixed. Why am I so mixed?

SPEAKER_01 1:21:11

First date, I think we talked about this. First date meet somewhere.

SPEAKER_03 1:21:17

Yeah, see, I say that. I've never met a hinge date. I've never met anybody anywhere.

SPEAKER_00 1:21:22

If it's a hinge date.

SPEAKER_03 1:21:23

And I've also never gone out with like a clap, like a like just like a straight stranger. It's always like I have friends who know him and like he's a normal guy.

SPEAKER_06 1:21:32

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 1:21:33

Um, yeah, and yeah, like if I if I meet somebody in Dallas, like I will be meeting them somewhere. I'm not having them like even like say I was staying in a hotel in Dallas. I'm not having them like come to my hotel room and picking me up. I'm gonna meet them somewhere. Like, I don't even want to know, I don't want them to know even what hotel I'm staying at.

SPEAKER_01 1:21:56

Yeah, you gotta. Even I don't know, even after a couple times of meeting someone like pure stranger.

SPEAKER_03 1:22:03

Yeah, no. You gotta take a sec. Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:22:06

Yeah, you gotta be careful because people can fake it.

SPEAKER_03 1:22:08

But like, okay, so like say you're dating or like okay, I don't know, talking for a few months or whatever in your situationship.

SPEAKER_06 1:22:17

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 1:22:18

Like, if they live far away, I think like take turns. Like if I was dating somebody who lived in Salt Lake.

SPEAKER_01 1:22:25

Yeah, Megan, like Megan and I would do this.

SPEAKER_03 1:22:27

Yeah, and like I lived in Draper, it's like you kind of like take turns.

SPEAKER_01 1:22:31

Yep.

SPEAKER_03 1:22:32

Or it's like if you drove here and like we will say you and Megan wanted to go get dinner in Lehigh, then like you would drive her car. Yeah, you would still drive, but you would drive her car.

SPEAKER_01 1:22:42

Speaking of which, next question is for married. Or you're in a real relationship.

SPEAKER_03 1:22:47

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:22:48

Who drives the car?

SPEAKER_03 1:22:49

Oh, the guy. Always. Always the guy. Unless, like, genuinely you're the world's worst driver than I'm driving because I'm the best driver I know. So sometimes I can get real back seedy.

SPEAKER_01 1:23:03

But I've had some friends. Yeah. That kills me.

SPEAKER_03 1:23:06

Well, you're not a very good driver.

SPEAKER_01 1:23:07

I am a fantastic driver.

SPEAKER_03 1:23:09

No.

SPEAKER_01 1:23:10

Why am I not a good driver?

SPEAKER_03 1:23:11

You're real heavy on the brakes.

unknown 1:23:14

Oh my gosh.

SPEAKER_01 1:23:15

No, that's that's Megan when we pull into like No, like Megan, God lover.

SPEAKER_03 1:23:22

Worst driver ever.

SPEAKER_01 1:23:23

Okay, yes. She is. She hugs the side. Oh, she is the worst driver. It's it's scary. But anyway, like it's when you pull into like when I come to your house, or we're going over like a simple bump. You know, you can like anticipate it and like kind of like get your core ready.

SPEAKER_03 1:23:41

Like take your foot off the brake if you need to slow down a little bit. No, no, no.

SPEAKER_01 1:23:44

Talking about like she's in the passenger seat.

SPEAKER_03 1:23:46

Oh, yeah, yeah, yeah. You know what I mean? Yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:23:48

You like pulling in, and you can't you know a bump's coming, so you kind of like prepare yourself so you don't like look like a like string beam. And I will go over a bump.

SPEAKER_03 1:23:59

No, you when we pull into Shannon's driveway, it's we're like being thrown, like thrashing.

SPEAKER_01 1:24:05

But you like know it's coming, so you gotta prepare yourself. Megan, though?

SPEAKER_03 1:24:08

No, we never prepare ourselves.

SPEAKER_01 1:24:10

Never prepares. Looks like she is being just like whiplashed back and forth. I'm like, do you not have any core muscles? You can't hold yourself up.

SPEAKER_03 1:24:18

No, I do that too. Like, whenever like Shannon's driving and she pulls into the driveway, I'm always like, oh my gosh. Like, because when you're driving, like you have something to hold on to that stabilizes you.

SPEAKER_01 1:24:29

Or this, or this other thing that drives me insane. I'm driving. She's over here just looking at her phone. And then looks up and just like, oh my gosh. Watch out for that person. Like, what are you talking about? You haven't been paying attention the entire time. Yeah. And then you look up and have to be the backseat driver.

SPEAKER_03 1:24:48

We're really bad backseat drivers, I'll give you that.

SPEAKER_01 1:24:50

Very bad. Very bad.

SPEAKER_03 1:24:52

Yeah, which I don't really understand why Megan is, because it's not like she's that great of a driver anyway. I get why I am, because I'm like, no, why are you doing this? Like, you're doing it wrong.

SPEAKER_01 1:25:00

You are so annoying.

SPEAKER_03 1:25:02

I am the best driver I know.

SPEAKER_01 1:25:05

That is not true.

SPEAKER_03 1:25:06

Actually, okay, no, Michael's the best driver I know. I am in a close second, and he actually agrees with that. And so does she.

SPEAKER_01 1:25:14

I've actually never had you drive me anywhere.

SPEAKER_03 1:25:17

Well, why the hell would I drive you anywhere?

SPEAKER_01 1:25:20

I mean you should. Like, why am I driving?

SPEAKER_03 1:25:25

Well, because usually when we're going somewhere, Megan and the boys are with us.

SPEAKER_01 1:25:28

Yeah, that's true. Um, what was I gonna say? But I do know, I do have friends where their wives drive them.

SPEAKER_03 1:25:35

I will say, Shannon drives sometimes. Like, if if she's going further than like 10 or 15 minutes away, she has to drive because she gets really, really car sick.

SPEAKER_00 1:25:48

That's fair.

SPEAKER_03 1:25:49

That's and like even like remember when we went to IFA, it's literally like not even 10 minutes up the road, and I was in the very back of the car. I was on the verge of throwing up because I was so far in the back. It was hot too. And it was so hot, and I was like, oh my gosh, like I thought I was gonna die. I had to like, we had to take out the car seat so I could sit closer because I was like, I think I'm gonna die. Like, I got so car sick.

SPEAKER_01 1:26:14

Like Weston got some guys car sickness.

SPEAKER_03 1:26:17

Ryan. I'm just gonna message on Ryan.

SPEAKER_01 1:26:20

He wants to fly you out somewhere.

SPEAKER_03 1:26:22

Oh my gosh, look at that.

SPEAKER_01 1:26:27

Oh, let me see. Let me see this guy. I can I give a quick review.

SPEAKER_03 1:26:32

Interesting. Yes, let me open it. I had to Okay, right now.

SPEAKER_01 1:26:37

Okay. Alright. 32. You could be my dentist.

SPEAKER_03 1:26:45

Okay, can we not?

SPEAKER_01 1:26:47

What? That's not like. What's that gonna do?

SPEAKER_03 1:26:49

I don't know. Just I like being I like being mysterious. Yeah, we're not sure what that is. We're just gonna ignore that picture. Okay, who cares? Maybe that's not his leg.

SPEAKER_01 1:27:15

I mean, there you go.

SPEAKER_03 1:27:20

Well, what do you expect? It's Raya.

SPEAKER_01 1:27:22

I don't know. Okay.

SPEAKER_03 1:27:25

Hello.

SPEAKER_01 1:27:26

I don't know.

SPEAKER_03 1:27:28

Okay, well, yeah, hello. What do you expect? It's Raya. I mean, you're gonna meet a Mormon boy on Raya.

SPEAKER_00 1:27:33

I don't know. I thought maybe.

SPEAKER_03 1:27:34

We could always convert them.

unknown 1:27:36

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 1:27:37

That could be my new Barbie storyline.

SPEAKER_01 1:27:40

Real life Barbie storyline.

SPEAKER_03 1:27:43

I'm just kidding.

SPEAKER_01 1:27:44

Okay, let's say we get you get married.

SPEAKER_02 1:27:46

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:27:47

Whose responsibility is it to plan the meals?

SPEAKER_03 1:27:54

Um, okay, day to day, like during the week, the white. Saturday, Sunday, especially Sunday dinner, the man. Just because, like, usually, and this is just all coming from my experience because usually on Sunday dinners, we're barbecuing.

SPEAKER_01 1:28:16

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 1:28:17

I don't freaking know how to barbecue.

SPEAKER_01 1:28:19

Yeah, we know.

SPEAKER_03 1:28:21

The Traeger makes it a lot easier, but like when Michael used to have like a legit barbecuer with like the fire that would come up through the gate. I'm not touching that thing with the temple. Well, then you have to like turn on the propane. It's very simple, but so like that's always what I was used to. Or like also Shannon just like kind of stopped cooking one day, and like she only cooks like now, like on like Christmas and Thanksgiving and like Easter. So it's like when I was growing up, it was like we're going out to eat, and then we would have like two or three like home cooked meals. Like Sunday dinner is always a big thing. So we always have like an amazing meal on Sunday, and then like one or two more home-cooked meals throughout the week.

SPEAKER_01 1:29:13

Yeah. Trying to think Megan and I pretty much plan them together. We always just talk about like I have to come up with two, she has to I have to come up with two, you know.

SPEAKER_03 1:29:23

Well, it's also like hard, like even because like now I'm kind of in charge of Sunday dinners where it's like I have to buy the groceries, or like no one's getting the groceries and then no one's eating on Sunday. So I always try to text in the family text and be like, okay, what dinner do we want for Sunday? Because I want everybody to like it. Yeah. And it's hard to come up with a meal like by yourself. Like, you need some input. It's like, oh, what sounds good to you this week? And I feel like you and Megan do a really good job of that.

SPEAKER_01 1:29:52

And I do the grocery shopping. I do not allow her to do the grocery shopping.

SPEAKER_03 1:29:57

Well.

SPEAKER_01 1:29:58

And allow is a major, like, crazy word. I don't like say she can't do the grocery shopping. It's because we all, yeah.

SPEAKER_03 1:30:06

Well, I know why. I don't know if they know why.

SPEAKER_01 1:30:09

You and her have a habit of buying enough food for 40 people. And our eyes are never looking at a price tag.

unknown 1:30:19

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:30:19

And so then you guys come back and say, what'd you get at the store and how much was it?

SPEAKER_03 1:30:23

I don't know.

SPEAKER_01 1:30:23

Insane amount of food.

unknown 1:30:24

I don't know. I don't know.

SPEAKER_03 1:30:27

In our defense, we were raised by Shannon, who was like this this is Shannon's philosophy, and she might get mad at me for saying this. This typically Shannon's philosophy. You get what you pay for.

SPEAKER_01 1:30:43

So And you know companies know that, and so they're pick up their price to make it feel like you're getting.

SPEAKER_03 1:30:49

I'm sure they do. But like you can so clearly taste the difference. For example, at Harman's placebo. No, at Harman's place we get ground beef. I will only buy the Snake River Farms ground beef. Because you can so clearly taste the difference of just like your Joe Schmo ground beef. It is better.

SPEAKER_06 1:31:11

Okay.

SPEAKER_03 1:31:12

And even because even Michael was like, you guys are insane, just buy the cheaper meat. No, now he's a little bit of a snob, and now he only will buy Snake River meat.

SPEAKER_01 1:31:22

Okay. Yeah, please. This is the thing though. We love you. We um it comes a time when you have to Or like balsamic vinegar. Okay, give me a break. Okay, but you have to like Megan is now married. We're paying for our own groceries. Yeah, it's devastating. We had Wegman's in Virginia, which is just like Harman's.

SPEAKER_03 1:31:50

Harman's is better.

SPEAKER_01 1:31:52

Okay, you're such a snog. Harman's is not better. Harman's is better. Harman's is overpriced by like 50% for the same stuff.

SPEAKER_03 1:31:59

No, it's so good. I love Harman's. It's a rich one. You won't never find a better grocery store than Harman's. Rip off.

SPEAKER_01 1:32:04

Anyway.

SPEAKER_03 1:32:05

Close second, Myers.

SPEAKER_01 1:32:07

Myers is like a 10-foot by 10-foot little store. Has nothing in it.

SPEAKER_03 1:32:12

They have a lot of stuff. They have amazing stuff. I love, I love Meyer's. They have the best the best tri-tip, and you have to agree with that.

SPEAKER_01 1:32:21

No. I got just a good tri-tip at Wetman's. In Virginia. Anyway, as I was saying, I will never forget the first day that Megan had just gotten to Rhode Island. We go to the store together. She buys we just went to like a normal grocery store, not anything fancy, like Harman's, and we needed cooking oil. She bought like $40 avocado oil.

SPEAKER_03 1:32:52

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:32:53

I was like, what the F.

SPEAKER_03 1:32:55

What are you gonna cook with? Canola oil?

SPEAKER_01 1:32:58

There are $9 options for avocado oil or olive oil or something else. You don't have to get the $40 one.

SPEAKER_03 1:33:06

I'm just telling you how we were raised. Okay, not saying it's right, but like that's what we're used to. We're a product of our environment.

SPEAKER_01 1:33:12

That was how long ago? Almost seven years ago. Yeah. And we continue to have the same argument. Or I have to say, how much did you spend at the store? She hasn't been able to answer me once.

SPEAKER_03 1:33:27

No, we never know.

SPEAKER_01 1:33:29

Still waiting for the day that she can tell me the exact dollars.

SPEAKER_03 1:33:33

Would you like a receipt? No. Throw it away.

SPEAKER_01 1:33:35

Or how much did you spend? I was like 50 bucks. Get the receipt? 125.

SPEAKER_03 1:33:41

You always have to downplay it.

SPEAKER_01 1:33:43

Drives me insane. Okay. Anyway, that one is a sensitive subject for me. Because it actually does drive me insane. So let's do like one more.

SPEAKER_02 1:33:53

Okay.

SPEAKER_01 1:33:55

Who decides whose family you see for the holidays? I feel like a lot of people fight on this one.

SPEAKER_03 1:34:04

Yeah, this is tough because. Okay. And you tell me how you feel about this. I feel like before you have kids, it's a lot easier to like do half day, half day.

SPEAKER_01 1:34:17

Yeah. And then once you have kids, it's like Well, a lot of people can't do half day, half day because some people don't live.

SPEAKER_03 1:34:23

No, I'm talking about our situation.

SPEAKER_01 1:34:25

Okay.

SPEAKER_03 1:34:26

Like where your family lives like 30 minutes away from us.

SPEAKER_01 1:34:28

Yes, okay.

SPEAKER_03 1:34:29

Um, but yeah, obviously you can't do that if they don't live that close to you. Without kids, I feel like it's very normal to do half day, half day if you're from the same area. And then once you have kids, then that makes it a lot harder because then you have to pack a lot of crap up. So then you start doing every other. And usually uh at least what we did, like when you guys got married, we just kept like whatever that year was going to be. That's what you guys like jumped in on. So like if it was an on-year, you guys were gonna be with us for Christmas, with your family for Thanksgiving. If it's an off-year, us for Thanksgiving, your family for Christmas. And you just alternate that every other year.

SPEAKER_01 1:35:15

Which we really haven't done. We still do like half half.

SPEAKER_03 1:35:19

Yeah, you guys We always go both. Well, especially because the last two years you haven't lived here.

SPEAKER_01 1:35:27

Yeah, so it's like we're not always here for Thanksgiving, we haven't been here for Thanksgiving.

SPEAKER_03 1:35:30

Yeah, so like when you're here for Christmas, two-week break, you spend the first week up there or first week here and then switch. Switch.

SPEAKER_01 1:35:37

And then we still go on Christmas, we'll go do both. Yeah, yeah, it's hard. It's hard being away and then coming into town.

SPEAKER_03 1:35:46

Yeah, because everybody wants to see you and hang out and see the boys. Yeah. It's hard.

SPEAKER_01 1:35:51

It's hard because you also don't want to feel like you want people to feel like, oh, you're not coming to see us enough. And no offense to your family, but you're like Emily loves to you. Why are you guys going up to your your family's house? Like we're so much cooler. It's like, what are you talking about?

SPEAKER_03 1:36:09

We want to hang out with the boys.

SPEAKER_01 1:36:11

Well, great, but like we want to see our family, my family too.

SPEAKER_03 1:36:14

And the babies want to hang out with the babies.

SPEAKER_01 1:36:17

They want to hang out with their other cousins too.

SPEAKER_03 1:36:19

I know, I know. When Emily goes to the Jacksons, I'm just like, why are you going there? And then I usually end up inviting myself. I'm like, fine, if you're going, I'm going too. And I'll show up at their house.

SPEAKER_04 1:36:30

But you showed up at my house too.

SPEAKER_03 1:36:31

I did show up at your house. I make my right at home. No, I like to hang out with my people.

SPEAKER_01 1:36:38

Yeah, I guess so. But anyway, it's tough. And I don't know how we do that though, if we lived in different like if my family was in a different state than your family.

SPEAKER_03 1:36:50

You would just have to do like full separate this year. We're spending Christmas with one family. Next year you're spending Christmas with the other family.

SPEAKER_01 1:36:58

Yeah, it's tough. That would be really hard. Yeah. But no, it's I'm actually very nervous for is not like nervous, is Christmas for like this upcoming year.

SPEAKER_03 1:37:10

Because you think you guys will want to stay in Dallas?

SPEAKER_01 1:37:13

Potentially, just for like presents and stuff, and then either like come up before or after.

SPEAKER_03 1:37:18

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:37:19

Because I'm so sick of having to get all their presents here.

SPEAKER_03 1:37:22

Yeah, shipping everything.

SPEAKER_01 1:37:23

And then shipping everything back. It's like you're spending for two Christmases just to get stuff back.

SPEAKER_03 1:37:28

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:37:29

It just doesn't make sense.

SPEAKER_03 1:37:30

I get that.

SPEAKER_01 1:37:31

But then the boys are gonna be like, where I want my toys here.

SPEAKER_03 1:37:34

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:37:35

But then they also get so many toys from everybody else here. That's the one part that gets annoying.

SPEAKER_03 1:37:41

Have you and Megan talked about that yet?

SPEAKER_01 1:37:43

Yeah. But we don't have like any plan of what we want to do. We're like, oh, let's just come up Christmas Day after we open presents, just fly up here, or maybe let's celebrate Christmas the day before. But then we're like, a lot of the traditions are Christmas Eve and like leading up to Christmas. And then so we miss out on all those. We're like, okay, then let's but then how do we get the presents here? You know, like you're not having the Christmas morning. I don't know the answer is. I hate that. Anyway.

SPEAKER_03 1:38:14

Yeah, I don't know either.

SPEAKER_01 1:38:16

So what's gonna happen if your husband is in Dallas? I or somewhere other state. I think maybe in Tennessee.

SPEAKER_03 1:38:24

We shall cross that bridge when we come to it.

SPEAKER_01 1:38:26

Yeah, that'll suck. Okay. Two judge and juries and then we're done.

SPEAKER_03 1:38:30

Let's go.

SPEAKER_01 1:38:34

Um this one. I hope this is the right place to send in for judge and jury. Yes, again, you can DM us, that is great. My husband's brother and wife traveled to town for our five-year-old's birthday. They came in town for an extended trip and first went to my in-laws about an hour and a half away from our house. We said we would come down Friday and vis wait, we said we'd come down Friday and visit and do dinner. We left our house at 3 30 as planned and got there at 5. My brother-in-law and his family had gone to a store over a half hour away and didn't tell us. We literally had to pass them on our drive in. So we were already miffed, which I've never used that word miffed, but I like it. That we drove our kids, 5-1, out there and they weren't there. Then come to find out, no one had planned dinner because they all had all gone out to a late lunch together. So it didn't cross their minds that our children would expect to eat at a normal dinner time, and they were put off by us wanting to feed them at 6. Like they are kids. Question mark. They don't care that you had ate a late lunch and they just want dinner. Am I wrong to be so upset about the lack of consideration and communication? I appreciate that they would drive 12 hours to come see our child for his birthday. It's just weird that they would put forth the effort, then not actually see him or put thought into the time, that time with him.

SPEAKER_03 1:39:59

Yeah, it's like they could have been like, hey, we had a late lunch, so yeah, I get why she's like bugged.

SPEAKER_01 1:40:09

And she's told them they were coming down that dinner. For dinner. For dinner.

SPEAKER_03 1:40:13

Yeah, yeah, no, that's rude and annoying.

SPEAKER_01 1:40:16

But I do think if your husband's like your brother-in-law and sister-in-law don't have kids, people just like don't get it.

SPEAKER_03 1:40:23

They really don't get it.

SPEAKER_01 1:40:26

And and I've talked to a couple friends about this. There's like you do not understand what it's like to have a kid until you have a kid. Even if you hang out, hang out around them, like your life just changes so much, and you just you just can't comprehend it until you actually have a kid.

SPEAKER_03 1:40:43

Yeah. Well, and every kid also like is so different. Like some kids like really need like a set schedule. And like if they don't have a schedule, then it's just like not good. Where other kids are more chill, and it's like, okay, yeah, like we can have dinner at seven, or we can do a later dinner because you guys had a later lunch. Where it's like that kid's not gonna freak out, but other kids like I mean, if it was my boys and we had not fed them, oh no, they think it was gonna be dinner, they would be disasters, they would be going insane.

SPEAKER_01 1:41:15

They yeah, they get hangry, and they would be, yeah, they would be so hangry, crying, just fussy. So I'm and it sounds like that's what happened, just because she's so annoyed about it. So I I would be pissed.

SPEAKER_03 1:41:27

Oh yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:41:28

I'd be pissed, but I would be like, I don't know.

SPEAKER_03 1:41:31

Well, it it just seems weird to me that they wouldn't like they unless they just like completely forgot and it left their brains that you guys were coming down for dinner. Yeah, like why go to a late lunch?

SPEAKER_01 1:41:46

I don't know. And even if even if like someone's coming into town, like coming into town and they have kids, and I still had eight, a late lunch, I'd be like, yeah, let's go get them some food. Let's make them something. That's not a big deal.

SPEAKER_02 1:42:01

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:42:01

But then to force like a late dinner, I'd be like, all right, you guys are annoying. I'd be kind of annoying.

SPEAKER_03 1:42:07

Yeah, it's rude, especially because they had a plan. It's not like they were like, oh, hey, we're on our way up like super last minute. Like they had a plan.

SPEAKER_01 1:42:13

It was all planned.

SPEAKER_03 1:42:14

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:42:15

I would probably tell my brother-in-law and sister-in-law to grow up. That's what I would say.

SPEAKER_03 1:42:22

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:42:22

I'd be kind of pissed. Yeah. Like, grow up. Think about someone other than yourselves.

SPEAKER_03 1:42:25

Like the other day, me and Megan kind of had a late lunch when she made bread and we ate the whole loaf.

SPEAKER_01 1:42:31

Yeah, you guys stuffed your fruits.

SPEAKER_03 1:42:33

We really went to town on that thing. Okay, here we go. So good.

SPEAKER_01 1:42:36

I have a plan.

SPEAKER_03 1:42:37

Can I finish my story?

SPEAKER_01 1:42:38

Yes, sorry, God. But I want to go back to it.

SPEAKER_03 1:42:41

Anyway, then we went, where did we? Oh, we went to Top Golf. None of us were hungry. So, like, we just got waters and like Sprite. We didn't get like, because at Top Golf, you have like the little like finger foods.

SPEAKER_01 1:42:51

Yeah, it's kind of disgusting.

SPEAKER_03 1:42:52

Yeah, it is kind of gross. And then after the boys were hungry, so we were like, okay, let's go get dinner. I wasn't hungry. Megan wasn't hungry.

SPEAKER_01 1:43:00

I was starving.

SPEAKER_03 1:43:01

So like me and Megan didn't get food.

SPEAKER_01 1:43:03

Uh-huh.

SPEAKER_03 1:43:04

But like the boys ate, my mom and dad, and you ate, and like me and Megan just got diet cokes. And we were just like there for fun. Because I wasn't like, I'm not hungry. Why are we going to this restaurant? I was like, no.

SPEAKER_01 1:43:16

No, you guys. That was actually so funny. Okay. Oh my god. Random tangent, though. Your dad. I was like is so funny.

SPEAKER_03 1:43:24

In pure hell.

SPEAKER_01 1:43:26

Okay, it wasn't that bad.

SPEAKER_03 1:43:28

No, it was bad.

SPEAKER_01 1:43:30

We so we finished Top Golf. Your dad says he has a surprise. He's gonna take us to a restaurant. Not he didn't tell anybody where we're going.

SPEAKER_03 1:43:37

We were like, Michael, where are we going? And he was like, nope, it's a surprise, which is never a good sign. I thought, I mean, it was good.

SPEAKER_01 1:43:45

It wasn't terrible.

SPEAKER_03 1:43:46

Italian village, it has it has been in that same spot for at least 35 years.

SPEAKER_01 1:43:53

But that also means it's good because people it's still around for 35 years.

SPEAKER_03 1:43:57

No, honestly, I'd rather go to Olive Garden.

SPEAKER_01 1:43:59

Okay, give me a break.

SPEAKER_03 1:44:02

Well, and the other issue was it it wasn't so much Italian village. The other issue was it took forever getting our food out. Like somebody sat down at the exact same time as us, they ordered, got their food, left for like a solid 15 minutes before we even got the kids' food. And we ordered the kids' food first.

SPEAKER_01 1:44:27

I did feel kind of like awkward because it was Italian village, and being unfortunately this gluten-free thing, I was like, all right, I don't want to order a steak. That was like there was but there's nothing else on the menu that I could have got. Yeah. So I was like, alright, I'll get the steak. I I was kind of embarrassed by that, but oh well.

SPEAKER_03 1:44:47

No, no one cares. Who cares?

SPEAKER_01 1:44:48

It was kind of weird.

SPEAKER_03 1:44:48

Anyway, no, it wasn't weird. I didn't I didn't think one thing of it.

SPEAKER_01 1:44:52

Oh.

SPEAKER_03 1:44:53

Um I mean, I was like, why are you getting steak at Italian Village? I think it was actually pretty good.

SPEAKER_01 1:44:59

It was good.

SPEAKER_03 1:45:00

Well, that's good.

SPEAKER_01 1:45:00

It kind of tasted like a Sizzler steak. Which Sizzler back in the day, their steaks used to be decent.

SPEAKER_03 1:45:06

I don't know. Okay, would you rather go to Red Lobster or Sizzler?

SPEAKER_01 1:45:11

I've actually never had red lobster.

SPEAKER_03 1:45:14

I actually don't think I have either.

SPEAKER_01 1:45:16

Why did you ask the question?

SPEAKER_03 1:45:18

Well, no, just because like there's always like a stigma around like Red Lobster, Sizzler.

SPEAKER_01 1:45:22

Sizzler was fantastic. Did you ever go to Sizzler?

SPEAKER_03 1:45:26

No.

SPEAKER_01 1:45:26

Sizzler had this combo steak and Malibu chicken.

SPEAKER_03 1:45:30

Did you ever go to Fizzoli's?

SPEAKER_01 1:45:32

Yes.

SPEAKER_03 1:45:34

That place was so much.

SPEAKER_01 1:45:35

I mean, we would always stop at the one in Draper.

SPEAKER_03 1:45:38

Yes, there were, it was just right here with the drive-thru. You know, me and Emily and Amanda.

SPEAKER_01 1:45:43

Go there all the time.

SPEAKER_03 1:45:44

And Emily is like little like Mazda. We would go through the drive-thru and get like four bags of breadsticks. Hounded. They were gone. Like no crumbs left in the bag.

SPEAKER_01 1:45:55

You guys' diet was kind of crazy. But anyway.

SPEAKER_03 1:45:58

Yeah, our diet was crazy.

SPEAKER_01 1:46:00

Um, what were we talking about?

SPEAKER_03 1:46:02

Italian village. No, and the reason why it was so bad is because the kids, the boys were already hungry, and then it took so long that they started to get hangry.

SPEAKER_01 1:46:14

Then they brought their food. They finished it. They've been gonna be.

SPEAKER_03 1:46:19

Yeah, yeah. And I was and I didn't get anything because I wasn't hungry. So I was just, I'm like, how many diet cokes am I gonna pound at this table?

SPEAKER_05 1:46:26

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 1:46:26

Waiting for all of you guys to eat. And then I feel like you guys felt like you had to kind of scarf down your food because then the boys were like, let's go. Wesson kept being like, let's get out of here. And I was like, Yeah, Weston, let's get out of here.

SPEAKER_05 1:46:38

Yeah.

SPEAKER_03 1:46:39

I felt like, and they've had the same decorations for 150 years. Like, I felt like I was in a stimulation or something. Like, I was like, get me the F. Like, I felt like I was there for years.

SPEAKER_01 1:46:51

Like, literally years.

SPEAKER_03 1:46:54

That that took years off my life.

SPEAKER_01 1:46:56

So dramatic.

SPEAKER_03 1:46:57

I mean, yeah, it was very dramatic.

SPEAKER_01 1:46:59

But I have no idea how we got on this tangent.

SPEAKER_03 1:47:02

We were talking about food. Oh, we were talking about the boys and how if they don't eat, then they get angry.

SPEAKER_01 1:47:06

Yes, yes, yes, yes. Um, but anyway, with this person, I'm on her side. I would be annoyed.

SPEAKER_03 1:47:12

Yeah, that's annoying.

SPEAKER_01 1:47:14

Sorry, we had some technical difficulties. Camera shut off. This has been a long episode. So let's hurry and do this last judge and jury. Okay, cool. Um, this one. Really quickly. It says, Love the show. Please settle this before I lose it. Every time my husband and I have a fight, his mom knows the details by lunch. We argued about money on Tuesday. Wednesday, she texts me with a link to a great free budgeting class.

SPEAKER_02 1:47:43

Oh shit.

SPEAKER_01 1:47:44

He says he is just close with his mom. And venting is healthy. I say our marriage has a third member. I never agreed to. I'm not asking him to cut off his mother. I'm asking that what happens in her house stays in our house. He says I'm overreacting that his mom is basically and and his mom is basically a therapist. Is venting to mom allowed? And is she allowed to text me the class? Respectfully, she said the third will in Tampa.

SPEAKER_03 1:48:13

Okay. Tell me if you would agree with this.

SPEAKER_01 1:48:16

Please.

SPEAKER_03 1:48:17

Because coming from somebody who vents to my family about any little tiny thing, and like I know when my sisters are fighting with their husbands, or like even if like you do something that makes Megan annoyed, like she's she'll be like, I'm so annoyed, and I'm like, why? And she's like, because he's just standing there. And I'm like, yeah, no, I'm annoyed for you too. Like just like sometimes your utter existence is bugging. So but what I do, and normally what I feel like Shannon and Michael try to do is we just pretend like we don't know. Unless it's like really bad where we feel like we need to say something, then it's like we don't know.

SPEAKER_01 1:49:00

You guys do do that a lot.

SPEAKER_03 1:49:02

But or like then, like Megan will start talking about it in front of you, and then you'll be like, well, no, and then this, this, this, and like you'll add your two cents, and we're like, yeah, we already heard about it.

SPEAKER_01 1:49:16

Like today.

SPEAKER_03 1:49:17

Yeah. Could you tell when we were being a little sus over on the couch?

SPEAKER_01 1:49:22

That's when you're talking about it.

SPEAKER_03 1:49:25

And we were like the Michael movie's so good.

SPEAKER_01 1:49:30

You're you guys are the worst.

SPEAKER_03 1:49:34

You guys are actually worried about the world. We want you to tell us.

SPEAKER_01 1:49:37

But I only wanted to tell you. I didn't want to tell everybody else. You know what I mean?

SPEAKER_03 1:49:43

Um wait, are we talking about the same thing?

SPEAKER_01 1:49:46

I don't know. Are we talking about what I shared outside? After?

SPEAKER_03 1:49:52

What did you share? After what? Dinner?

SPEAKER_01 1:49:55

Yeah. Never mind. Anyway, let's get back to this because we need to finish this up.

SPEAKER_03 1:50:02

Um so okay, so back to tell me if you agree with this. If he needs somewhere to vent, he wants to vent to his mom, okay, vent to your mom. But then the mother needs to be like, okay, sweetie, like kind of like be like, I hear what you're saying, but like don't be so easily annoyed. And then like she needs to not text you a budgeting link. Like that would freaking piss me off. It's like just pretend like you don't know.

SPEAKER_01 1:50:29

I'm gonna have my mom's and making a budgeting link. Just kidding.

SPEAKER_03 1:50:33

Would you agree with that? Or are you like, no, like don't be a little bit, like, don't be a mama's boy, and like you don't need to go run and tell your mom every little thing.

SPEAKER_01 1:50:42

Um, both. I do think it's good to have someone to vent to, but I think there's certain things you do.

SPEAKER_03 1:50:50

Certain things stay within the marriage.

SPEAKER_01 1:50:52

Like finance, unless you're like needing significant help. Like, I think there's certain like you, you should probably keep that within the marriage. Like, try and do it.

SPEAKER_03 1:51:03

Well, you didn't keep the grocery budget in the marriage, you just blasted her on the pod.

SPEAKER_01 1:51:09

Okay. I didn't share how much we spent.

SPEAKER_03 1:51:12

I'm just kidding.

SPEAKER_01 1:51:13

You're so annoying.

unknown 1:51:15

God.

SPEAKER_01 1:51:16

But yes, I think certain things stay in the marriage. I think, yeah, everyone needs to vent sometime. It's nice to have someone to vent to. And it's usually the parents.

SPEAKER_03 1:51:26

And he maybe he needs to be like, okay, mom, like, if I vent to you, like you can't go text her. Because then it makes things worse. Because then she's like, what, you're gonna go run tell mommy? But even then, loser.

SPEAKER_01 1:51:39

If you've had like the conversation wife that, like, okay, this stays very much.

SPEAKER_03 1:51:42

Run and tell mom and dad, actually.

SPEAKER_01 1:51:44

Yeah, you do. But if your husband says, I would like if you just keep this between us.

SPEAKER_03 1:51:50

Oh, that's actually happened. And I'm like, yeah, no, no, no, this will stay between us. And then I go tell everyone, and I'm like, but act like you don't know because he was like, don't tell your family. But I'm also not married, so it's different.

SPEAKER_01 1:52:04

It's like But that's like if you do that, then you're gonna lose the trust of your husband.

SPEAKER_03 1:52:09

He doesn't know.

SPEAKER_01 1:52:10

Yeah, that's so messed up.

SPEAKER_03 1:52:14

It's not like it was anything serious.

SPEAKER_01 1:52:15

I'm just saying though, like, if it was like financial issues, yeah.

SPEAKER_03 1:52:20

And he's like, please don't share the Okay, yeah, that's different than being like if it's something dumb, like Yeah, exactly.

SPEAKER_01 1:52:27

Yeah, but if it's like financial issues, like please don't share that with your family. Like, let's work through it together and make sure we're gonna be okay. I don't want everyone knowing.

SPEAKER_03 1:52:36

Yeah, no, I get that. For sure.

SPEAKER_01 1:52:39

Like in that situation, if it's something serious, like, yeah. But then also at the same time, if it's something even small, and you go tell your family behind his back, and say he finds out, if it was me, I'd be like, I asked you not to share that. And to be honest, that did help happen a couple times with Megan Knight in the beginning of our marriage.

SPEAKER_03 1:52:58

Oh my gosh, what did she share?

SPEAKER_01 1:53:00

I can't remember, it was just small things, it wasn't like serious, but it was like because especially with my family, I came like we're not like sharing everything like you guys. So there'd be certain things like please like just keep this between us. Like, I don't like everyone knowing my fights or certain things, you know what I mean? I've kind of gotten used to it now, but like I would find out later that she shared everything with you guys, and I'd be a little hurt because like I asked you not to, like, specifically asked you not to, and then you just said F it and told everybody. Like that hurts a little bit.

SPEAKER_03 1:53:34

Yeah, no, I do get that. Um, yeah, I don't know. If he's gonna go tell his mom everything, and if she specifically is asking, like, please don't go tell your mom, and he still is going and telling his mom, he needs to be like, do not text her. You have to act like you don't know. Or he can't tell his mom things anymore.

SPEAKER_01 1:53:58

Yeah, I think it's the latter.

SPEAKER_03 1:54:00

Oh, okay, yeah. I'm just trying to- Because you're still just hiding and like acting and you know doing something behind your what I would do because like it would be really well, also I'm not in that situation, so it's like why's that noise?

SPEAKER_01 1:54:16

I don't know. But anyway.

SPEAKER_03 1:54:18

Anyway, it just like I have I tell my family everything.

SPEAKER_01 1:54:22

I know, but like But doesn't that person become your new family too?

SPEAKER_03 1:54:28

And like Well, until we're married now.

SPEAKER_01 1:54:31

Well, duh, we're talking about when you're married.

SPEAKER_03 1:54:32

Well, okay, but I'm talking about like if like I was dating somebody and he was like, Don't tell your family this, but like XYZ.

SPEAKER_01 1:54:38

Yeah, yeah, yeah.

SPEAKER_03 1:54:39

Then I'd be like, Oh yeah, no, I totally. And then I'd be like, oh my gosh, guess what?

SPEAKER_01 1:54:44

But you're just like setting yourself up to lose the all the trust of the person. Like if some Megan tells me something and says, Don't tell anybody, I don't say anything. It doesn't matter who it is.

SPEAKER_03 1:54:56

Yeah, see, we're just not used to that because it's like growing up, it was like, don't tell anybody, and we were like, no, we'd never tell a soul. But that like your sisters don't count.

SPEAKER_01 1:55:06

But your sisters had the biggest mouse out there, yeah.

SPEAKER_03 1:55:09

That is true. That's valid.

SPEAKER_01 1:55:11

And so it's like if they know, then if it becomes some topic of conversation, they're gonna let it out.

SPEAKER_03 1:55:17

That's true, yeah. So maybe like maybe you maybe still don't tell. You should probably then these lips are sealed.

SPEAKER_01 1:55:33

Probably earnest trust with that and not share it.

SPEAKER_03 1:55:36

These lips are sealed.

SPEAKER_01 1:55:38

I I want a great movie.

SPEAKER_03 1:55:40

Did you ever watch that movie? No. My lips are sealed.

SPEAKER_01 1:55:42

What the heck are you talking about?

SPEAKER_03 1:55:43

Mary Kate and Ashley.

SPEAKER_01 1:55:46

How would I have known?

SPEAKER_03 1:55:47

Did you ever watch any Mary Kate and Ashley movies growing up?

SPEAKER_01 1:55:52

Probably. I don't know. I recognize Mary Kate and Ashley, but I could not tell you what one was about or who she was.

SPEAKER_03 1:55:59

Like, did you ever watch It Takes Two?

SPEAKER_01 1:56:02

No. I don't know what the heck that is. Who was Mary King and Ashley?

SPEAKER_03 1:56:06

They're twins. They were on Full House.

SPEAKER_01 1:56:08

That's right. Yeah, I did not watch any of their stuff.

SPEAKER_03 1:56:11

You didn't even watch Full House?

SPEAKER_01 1:56:12

I did watch Full House.

SPEAKER_03 1:56:13

Okay, great show.

SPEAKER_01 1:56:14

Anyway, that's it for the episode. That is a two-hour, maybe just under two-hour episode.

SPEAKER_03 1:56:20

Crazy.

SPEAKER_01 1:56:21

Ready?

SPEAKER_03 1:56:22

Applause for the one whoever listened to me. No, and like if my storylines for my Barbies offended anyone, I genuinely apologize. I was like six-year-old.

SPEAKER_01 1:56:40

No, those are crazy five-year-old, six-year-old storylines.

SPEAKER_03 1:56:44

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:56:44

You were. I mean, that's from Desperate Housewives.

SPEAKER_03 1:56:47

I got my inspo from Desperate Housewives and enough. So blame that.

SPEAKER_01 1:56:52

There you go. There you go. Well, we don't have video for this ending, so Rip. Oh well. Do you want to sign us off?

SPEAKER_03 1:57:01

Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:57:02

Okay.

SPEAKER_03 1:57:05

And that is our episode. Thank you so much for listening. We are your hosts, Amy and Zach. And follow us anywhere you listen to podcasts. That's Apple, Spotify, and YouTube.

SPEAKER_01 1:57:15

And that's it.

SPEAKER_03 1:57:19

I was trying to think of something I could say to like tie it in, but are we recording? Yeah.

SPEAKER_01 1:57:25

Okay.

SPEAKER_03 1:57:26

Um, yeah, that's it. And see you next time.

SPEAKER_01 1:57:32

Bye.

SPEAKER_03 1:57:32

Next time you'll be in Dallas. We're back to virtual.

SPEAKER_01 1:57:35

Oh, for just that one, and then then it'll be in person the next one. And I think the next one is like episode twenty five.

SPEAKER_03 1:57:41

Crazy.

SPEAKER_01 1:57:42

Nuts. Okay.

SPEAKER_03 1:57:43

I think I thought this one was twenty three.

SPEAKER_01 1:57:45

I don't know what it is. I think it was twenty four.

SPEAKER_03 1:57:48

Whatever. Who cares? All right. See ya.

SPEAKER_01 1:57:49

Bye.